Hello! My fiance and I are having a mid-afternoon wedding. Our reception will be around 3:30ish, so it's not at the right time of day for a big meal. So we decided on doing finger-food type foods. Well, my FMIL does not think it's good enough, and thinks it's unfair to our out-of-town guests. My out-of-town friends have said that they don't care what they eat, they're just looking forward to coming and having fun! Anyway, my FMIL plans to cook a big meal to invite all her out-of-town guests to after the reception. This really irritates me, because I'm going through all the work to plan a fun celebration, and she's pretty much saying I'm not doing a good enough of a job planning my own wedding, and that she's just gonna hafta make up for it after the fact. My FMIL and I have had many other wedding-related problems before this, but I can't take it anymore!
How do I handle this situation?