My son really wants to join the Boy Scouts, mostly because a couple of his friends belong and they do stuff that sounds cool. My ex and I have resisted this because we are atheists, are raising our children atheist, and the BSA is definitely a faith-based organization. Of equal importance to us, the BSA's stance on gay scouts and gay leaders is repulsive to us.
However, the BSA also does a lot of good things, is overall a good experience for boys, and would probably be a good & positive thing for our soon.
A dad whose son is in the organization says that the local charter basically ignores the national requirements on belief in a god and the ban on gays and the overall vibe of the local charters fit in with the overall liberal, crunchy-granola feel of the town where we live.
So . . . what do you think? Do the positives outweigh the negatives? Is our position that we will not support this organization for the reasons I mentioned too rigid? I know which way I'm leaning, but I wanted to hear other opinions, too. Thanks!