A little too harsh?

Re: A little too harsh?

• BmoreBride311 member

  

  June 2012

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_a-little-too-harsh?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:48677b36-ff32-42af-8138-51c6a762e087Post:a0bc431f-46cf-48ea-8551-20a2b30eaa22">Re: A little too harsh?</a>:
  [QUOTE]In Response to Re: A little too harsh? : Yes but she did say that they planned a "Family trip" around this...so (not being a mother but being an Aunt to many neices/nephews), I wouldnt just leave my children with just anyone if I was coming from a different state and the rest of the family was going to be at this wedding...right or wrong? Or maybe I completely read all these posts wrong?
  Posted by rachael7183[/QUOTE]
  
  I'm not saying leaving the decision of who to leave them with until the wedding day. But I believe a month is more than enough time to find a sitter for one evening. She can still bring them on the trip... the wedding + reception is only a few hours out of the trip...

  

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• Madisonpenny member

  

  June 2012

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_a-little-too-harsh?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:48677b36-ff32-42af-8138-51c6a762e087Post:0cb7c453-479f-4127-af5c-7aae79c930a8">Re: A little too harsh?</a>:
  [QUOTE]I remember reading your first post, so I know how much this situation worried you.  I personally think last messages were a little harsh, but way to go on standing up for something you wanted. <strong>My only question is was the invitation addressed to Mr. and Mrs. M and family ?</strong>  Or did it include the children's names?  If so, I think you should not have univited them.  Just because no one else decided to bring their kids doesn't mean that the family who wants to bring their children should not be able to when they were invited. If the kids weren't included on the invitation anyway, and she only asked to bring them, it's a little bit of a faux pas that you said yes then no (and it's a faux pas to ask to bring extra guests to the wedding), but 26 days is plently of time to find a sitter.  Just enjoy your wedding without them!
  Posted by KatieK501[/QUOTE]
  
  
  They were all addressed to Mr and MRs....  there was NO and family on ANY invitations.

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• BeachLover2885 member

  

  June 2012

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_a-little-too-harsh?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:48677b36-ff32-42af-8138-51c6a762e087Post:7ae49f83-0b87-4599-9207-c3172abf960e">Re: A little too harsh?</a>:
  [QUOTE]In Response to Re: A little too harsh? : They were all addressed to Mr and MRs....  there was NO and family on ANY invitations.
  Posted by Madisonpenny[/QUOTE]
  
  <div>Then your cousin is even more in the wrong! Sorry you had to deal with this! </div>

  

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