So I've know my neighbor for about 6 years now and though she is a few years younger then me (she's 17) we've always gotten along and been rather close and I've been kind of a role model for her I guess or so she says lol So I really wanted her to be in my wedding. When I asked her to be a BM I told her to ask her parents because I know how strict they are and didn't want to start planning and ordering dresses and stuff and her not even be allowed to be in the wedding. Well she asked her parents and they said it was fine... so we were super excited and started looking at dresses and she wanted to help do favors and all that good stuff! Well she came over today and told me her parents have changed their minds and feel she's too young to be in a wedding! I mean I know they have the right to say she can't be in it because she's under 18 but really??? I mean I had her ask for a reason... we've been planning on her being a BM for months now! She'll be almost 18 by the time the wedding comes around... I don't want to be rude but I really can't see that as being too young to stand up next to me for 20 mins!!! She was so excited about it! And I'm obviously upset too... but she was so looking forward to it
The whole thing just sucks! And now our sides will be uneven too... ugh!