So, the bf & I are both divorced. We are both 28 and he is pushing marriage, so I thought I would test the waters here....
Is it wrong if I am the oldest child in a large Italian family (including extended family) and I would possibly getting married twice before anyone (cousins and sibling) is married once? It makes me feel weird.
Second, can I have a big wedding, again? Or is that also weird?
Will it matter if my wedding is shabby compared to the first as we'd be paying for this one ourselves instead of my parents footing the bill?
I have no idea what to do! The bf is def more into this than I am since he is lacking the insecurities.