Just an update for you girls who have followed my pre wedding doubts (ex wife drawing my income for child support ect). Well, that is the least of my worries. He has a had a personal ad on craigslist since at least 4 months before the wedding. Nice huh??? So glad I payed that 10K for the wedding, plus the honeymoon to Maui, oh and the rings. NERVER thought in a million years he would do this. SO glad I decided not to sign a marriage license until he found a permenant job. YEAH for me! Now if I can just get him out of my house.