What the heck is the style of my dress? I know which accessories I LOVE, but none of them go with my dress. I will look like a disaster if I don't have help!
My dress is more "traditional" looking than what I would pick if I went shopping today...BUT, I do love the dress. It is more "sweet" than "vintage." It is ice blue with bright white lace. My wedding is July 22 and I've put off accessories as long as I can. It's time to separate what I like from what I can actually pull off.
Here are crappy pics of the dress:
Ice blue, bright white lace, lace-up back, long train with lace tiers

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Here are my questions:
1. Jewelry:
Jewelry 1: Dramatic earrings/no necklace?

Jewelry 2: Wear both but keep them simple? I like the Stella & Dot glint set

Jewelry 3: This one with diamond stud earrings?

2. My Head
My hair is shorter but will be pinned up in a loose updo. I am having succulent flowers and considered a succulent hair piece. I think it might be too much.
Hair 1: Succulent, veil under updo?

Hair 2: What length veil? Is this too much:

Hair 3: Head piece from whichgoose (etsy)? Probably too much....

Any other suggestions?
3. Shoes: can I pull off a colored wedge? Bridesmaid dresses are marine blue (navy). They are wearing various colored shoes. I hate heels but can do a wedge.
Any help would be appreciated more than you could imagine! I'm a fashion disaster...
Sam