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June 2012 Weddings
Therapy Thursday
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Re: Therapy Thursday
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He's know for a month he can't make it and "has been trying to make it work" but only told us last night because FI asked if he wanted to wear his dress uniform or a tux. I wish that we were told a month ago. There is a ton of planning going into this thing and when things are changing I need to be told ASAP. I already don't sleep at night. I'm glad the programs weren't printed.
Then, I got pissed off because in the same phone call he mentioned his wife is having a baby shower in NJ in July (our wedding is June 29) and he wants us to come. No offence, but please don't crush my spirits about you not coming to my wedding and then ask me to haul ass to NJ a week after our honeymoon to spend money on a gift. I *might have* thrown a temper tantrum when FI told me this and the words *directly proportional* were used; but I don't feel that bad, yet.
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Saturday can not come soon enough. I need our vacation. I can't wait to leave for Costa Rica and see our friends get married.
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[QUOTE]Tara, I would be pissed too! Sorry, it happened that way
Posted by Ash61612[/QUOTE]
Thanks. FI told me I was being a huge bitch, but that just made me even more angry.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Therapy Thursday : Thanks. FI told me I was being a huge bitch, but that just made me even more angry.
Posted by diamondx423[/QUOTE]
yeah, I am sure that didn't help the situation either.
[QUOTE]why is life so freakin expensive?? I never seem to have any money left over at the end of the month and <strong>am not making any progress on paying off my credit cards.</strong> I will be so glad when I move in with FI after the wedding and we will only have 1 set of bills
Posted by Ash61612[/QUOTE]
I'm not either. I feel awful. FI already pays the majority of our bills. Just wish money grew on trees lol
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So we've had to spend more time and money on phone calls and announcements that the wedding has been cancelled and I'm hurting for her...I want her to be ok but we're done with wedding talk for now.
I'm also mad because FI and I elected to do the "budget" plan of our gas & electric service because when we started on it, FI didn't have a job yet. Anyway I saw that we had a balance accumulating from what we used less what we've paid (they gradually increase your payments over time so you can pay it down), and last month I overpaid the bill, in order to pay down the accumulated charges. APPARENTLY that takes you off the budget plan and now our bill this month is 3x what we've been paying per month! We can afford it, but I was hoping to pay it down a little more gradually since everything is going to the wedding right now. Ugh!!
[QUOTE]Helping my friend pick up the remnants of her (very sudden and hurtful) cancelled engagement. He moved out last Friday and moved in with his new finacee...yay. So we've had to spend more time and money on phone calls and announcements that the wedding has been cancelled and I'm hurting for her...I want her to be ok but we're done with wedding talk for now.
Posted by melntaitt[/QUOTE]
Oh my....that is rough.
New fiance? God what a douche. I'm sure she's unbelievably hurt but obviously she is better off in the long run. I know that it sucks for you too because you feel the need to tone down the happy wedding talk around her, I'm going through that now with my BF.
I'm about to have a massive breakdown, I can feel it coming on. I think all the stress is just building and I'm so bored at work I have nothing to distract me from wedding crap.
And I finally started making some progress at the gym and of course my lower half is now injured. Boo.
[QUOTE]Helping my friend pick up the remnants of her (very sudden and hurtful) cancelled engagement. He moved out last Friday and moved in with his new finacee...yay. So we've had to spend more time and money on phone calls and announcements that the wedding has been cancelled and I'm hurting for her...I want her to be ok but we're done with wedding talk for now.
Posted by melntaitt[/QUOTE]
that's awful but I am sure she appreciates you being there for her in this time of need
[QUOTE]Helping my friend pick up the remnants of her (very sudden and hurtful) cancelled engagement. He moved out last Friday and moved in with his new finacee...yay. So we've had to spend more time and money on phone calls and announcements that the wedding has been cancelled and I'm hurting for her...I want her to be ok but we're done with wedding talk for now.
Posted by melntaitt[/QUOTE]
That is so awful!!
Thank goodness she has a great friend to get her through it. That guy sounds like a real winner.
[QUOTE]Helping my friend pick up the remnants of her (very sudden and hurtful) cancelled engagement. He moved out last Friday and moved in with his new finacee...yay. So we've had to spend more time and money on phone calls and announcements that the wedding has been cancelled and I'm hurting for her...I want her to be ok but we're done with wedding talk for now.
Posted by melntaitt[/QUOTE]
wow. what a dbag.
And Chelsea, EX is just jealous you're getting married and can't deal. Also, he's being a dbag.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Therapy Thursday : wow. what a dbag. <strong>And Chelsea, EX is just jealous you're getting married and can't deal. Also, he's being a dbag.
</strong>Posted by diamondx423[/QUOTE]
I couldnt agree more.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Therapy Thursday : Thanks. FI told me I was being a huge bitch, but that just made me even more angry.
Posted by diamondx423[/QUOTE]
<div>Yea...if and when FI says stuff like that it makes it 238904820432 times worse.</div><div>
</div><div>And I would have thrown a tempertrantrum too!!! I'm sorry, but a bridal shower and a baby shower are directly proportional...a wedding and the BIRTH are directly proportional...get it right, dude.</div>
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[QUOTE]Helping my friend pick up the remnants of her (very sudden and hurtful) cancelled engagement. He moved out last Friday and moved in with his new finacee...yay. So we've had to spend more time and money on phone calls and announcements that the wedding has been cancelled and I'm hurting for her...I want her to be ok but we're done with wedding talk for now.
Posted by melntaitt[/QUOTE]
<div>FIrst of all, what a douche. Second of all...what the heck is his new fiance thinking? Does she really think that won't happen to her?!?!?!?! Ugh. I'm so so so sorry for your friend.</div>
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[QUOTE]Weird.... you took me to court for set in stone visitation and 2 weeks in the next month is ALREADY all screwed up.... weird... I NEVER saw that one coming. GRRRR!!!! What a waste of everyones time and money!
Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]
<div>I just punched him in the nuts in my head...he's probably keeled over in pain right now and has no idea why.</div>
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Therapy Thursday: <strong>I'm about to have a massive breakdown, I can feel it coming on. I think all the stress is just building and I'm so bored at work I have nothing to distract me from wedding crap.</strong> And I finally started making some progress at the gym and of course my lower half is now injured. Boo.
Posted by daria24[/QUOTE]
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</div><div>Wow<font face="Arial"><span style="font-size:12px;"> </span></font><span style="background-color:#ebf4fb;font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;">melntaitt</span><span style="font-size:12px;font-family:Arial;">......that's awful!!!</span></div><div><span style="font-size:12px;font-family:Arial;">
</span></div><div><span style="font-size:12px;font-family:Arial;">Daria....my life exactly. I told FI last night I am one tiny incident away from absolutely losing it. Trying to keep it together but too many things happening at one time!! (and same problem as you....work is so boring so I have all this free time to stress about everything). UGhhhhh......</span></div><div><span style="font-size:12px;font-family:Arial;">
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Therapy Thursday : <strong>I just punched him in the nuts in my head...he's probably keeled over in pain right now and has no idea why.
</strong>Posted by kelsey+brandon[/QUOTE]
I just busted laughing out loud at this.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Therapy Thursday : I just punched him in the nuts in my head...he's probably keeled over in pain right now and has no idea why.
Posted by kelsey+brandon[/QUOTE]
and this is why I love our group of gals
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LMAO you're my hero!