Sometimes- a bride just wants to air some opinions because she cannot tell her fiance or her bridesmaids that they are great people, but their lack of giving a s*** about you, the bride, really sucks latey.
This should be the place where you can be free to express yourself. Instead, these other WOMEN call you ungratful and unkind for the way you feel and they mis read your entire point! They think financial compliants are the only thing people are venting about and not the fact that your BM's don;t plan or put in any effort at the shower they offer to throw. Some of these Knotties call you shallow when your future husband does an amazing thing and buys you your wedding jewerly because he says it makes you happy. These women all feel that Bridesmaids are just dolls that stand next to you on your big day and offer no other purpose in life. They are for picture purposes and their attendace should be reason enough to celebrate their existance.
Well I am sorry, but I choose my girls because they meant something to me and when the time comes and they fall through, are late for events and never return your calls I think the COMMUNITY as it is called, should be a safe place for the bride to kvetch about how lame they are acting and still be understood that we love these irresponsible people in our lives, they just drive us crazy at times.
These other Knottes can be really bitchy with their responses and make you feel like complete crap when your only intent was to get this stess off your chest, because you would never tell your frineds that their planning sucked, but thanks for the thought. Maybe some of you ladies should consider why these brides post their issues and concerns in the first place. And I'll be the first one to tell you, it's NOT so you can respond and make them feel like s***.