I've been reading lots of the posts and the "It's Normal" and I love it!! I'm recently engaged and planning my second wedding. My fi was never married and he wants a "real" wedding with all of the bells and whistles. I told him I would be happy to marry him at town hall and go for pizza after but he wasn't down for that. Nor was he down for eloping or a destination wedding with family. So b/c I love him dearly, I'm doing this again. It's so interesting how different things are the second time around and what you are willing to do and not do. Anyway, I just wanted to introduce myself and thank you all in advance. All of those questions I have about the dress, the shower, the bridal party.... no one really gets so I'm glad this board exists.