This is the first time I heard this and frankly I don't care, but I am just curious what other people did. My flower girl's mother just went and bought her a flower girl dress. I believe she asked me what my dress looked like, but I haven't seen it yet, so I don't know how similar it is or isn't. I think we will just have the ring bearer wear whatever the groomsmen are wearing just in a small size. He is 10, so he's not that young.