confessions

Nebb · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:7f386177-831b-481b-b967-62d6d5ac16bf">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: confessions : That must have been so freaking scary! I had to brake for a dog crossing the highway last week and I worried about him all day.
Posted by COkristi[/QUOTE]
It was, my heart just about stopped. I was on the deck finishing up dinner and standing there with a plate of steaks in my hand and saw him running around on the road and just started shreiking. Its even upsetting to think of it.

I know hes just a dog, but hes like my baby.

I get so nervous when I see dogs off leashes near the road, or it looks like someone is trying to catch them because theyve gotten loose. I hate it so much.

shellydiane820 · July 2010

Last night I found out none of my friends like my exboyfriend's fiance. (the couple that had the wedding invite with the heart sticker) and I LOVE it.

Nebb · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:c0a82614-eece-4b15-8aab-4bafa6b5c593">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]I had a major breakdown today in FI aunt's diner. A friend that lives in my development called me and starts off the conversation by saying there are 3 fire trucks by your house. I swear he said they are going into your unit. I hand the phone to FI and start balling. (My parents house burned down 5 years ago while we were all there) It turned out that it was a gas leak a few units away but I literally was balling. No one was hurt in our fire 5 years ago but we lost everything and it was very frightening. I just pictured going through all that again. I guess I should have listened to the the whole conversation before freaking out.
Posted by jamiefour[/QUOTE]
Thats awful, im so sorry. I think, given your past experiences, thats totally a justified response. Im terrified of fire, and ive never experienced one. I cant imagine having that happen. Im glad everything is ok though.

jamiefour · July 2010

Thanks Nebb. I was just thinking about your dog getting out and that is my second biggest fear. I totally understand the dog being your baby thing because if my dog was in my apartment when that friend called I would have been screaming and balling.

JennaV26 · July 2010

I confess that I can't wait to move so that I can get FI as far away from his parents as possible. His mother tried to tell me that she and FFIL are planning to keep FFIL's name on FI's bank account when we move so if we need money they can get it to us quickly. Two things:

1. FI is about to be MARRIED; therefore, NO we do NOT plan on having any bank accounts with his dad's name on it. There will be no parental access to our bank accounts

2. You need to let go woman!!!! I understand he is your baby but he's a grown man, deal with it!

Nebb · July 2010

I am very paranoid at night that there will be a fire and my dog will bolt and will run towards the fire rather than stay with us and im so irrationally afraid of fire at night and him dying. I would honest to god lose my head if he died, I know it will happen one day but im just not ready. If there was ever a fire and I knew he died in it, and was scared and alone, I just couldnt live with myself.

[Deleted User] · July 2010

Jamie - ditto Nebb. I can totally see where you'd be a little more sensitive to that kind of stuff than other people. I'm so sorry to hear about your family's house. That's so scary.

sarahmk5 · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:f277708d-47ed-44e5-b818-543c6daef540">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]I confess that I can't wait to move so that I can get FI as far away from his parents as possible. His mother tried to tell me that she and FFIL are planning to keep FFIL's name on FI's bank account when we move so if we need money they can get it to us quickly. Two things: 1. FI is about to be MARRIED; therefore, NO we do NOT plan on having any bank accounts with his dad's name on it. There will be no parental access to our bank accounts 2. You need to let go woman!!!! I understand he is your baby but he's a grown man, deal with it!
Posted by JennaV26[/QUOTE]

<div>That sucks! Just so you know, in my state if someone is to be removed from an account, they have to sign a paper to get off it - you can't just request it. Something you may want to look into.</div>

jamiefour · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:fa0173e2-508c-4738-98a0-9f7c9e3956f0">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]I am very paranoid at night that there will be a fire and my dog will bolt and will run towards the fire rather than stay with us and im so irrationally afraid of fire at night and him dying. I would honest to god lose my head if he died, I know it will happen one day but im just not ready. If there was ever a fire and I knew he died in it, and was scared and alone, I just couldnt live with myself.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
I have the same exact thoughts. I didn't get my dog until after our fire but I always think about that. I would prob grab for him before FI. Is that bad?

jamiefour · July 2010

Thanks CEW. The fire 5 years ago was horrible but thank god no one was hurt. It is just crazy to watch your house burn. I will never forget it. Everyday when I drive around the bend to my apt I look for fire trucks. It is crazy and today just freaked me out. My friend felt so bad because he didn't think I would react like that but everyone understood.

Nebb · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:46e50b55-36fa-4c82-bfad-39a6fc92bf86">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: confessions : I have the same exact thoughts. I didn't get my dog until after our fire but I always think about that. I would prob grab for him before FI. Is that bad?
Posted by jamiefour[/QUOTE]
I feel the same way. I know my H could take care of himself in a fire, but my dog is totally defensless. I know I could just kick my husband and tell him theres a fire, and he would know what to do.

sarahmk5 · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:902767bb-9bfb-4cc1-93b2-ea37e3b4cd91">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: confessions : I feel the same way. I know my H could take care of himself in a fire, but my dog is totally defensless. I know I could just kick my husband and tell him theres a fire, and he would know what to do.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

<div>This. I'd worry about my dog first, too.</div>

SarahPLiz · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:bd58b894-338e-432a-8c5a-36df9267eb05">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: confessions : That sucks! Just so you know, in my state if someone is to be removed from an account, they have to sign a paper to get off it - you can't just request it. Something you may want to look into.
Posted by sarahmk5[/QUOTE]

But he could just take all the money out of it and stop using it. Of course, it would be there for his father to launder drug money thorugh without his knowledge.. so its best just to close the account.

[Deleted User] · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:d4c251d6-ab77-4da9-bbf0-64fe04f445be">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: confessions : Haha. If I told FI shoosh, he'd shoosh me right back.
Posted by sarahmk5[/QUOTE]

That's why you have to combine it with the vampire face. It diffuses the shoosh while still getting the message across.

sarahmk5 · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:94f0ab8f-d777-44d4-beb1-d4a8dd541e41">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: confessions : But he could just take all the money out of it and stop using it. Of course, it would be there for his father to launder drug money thorugh without his knowledge.. so its best just to close the account.
Posted by SarahPLiz[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh, of course that's an option. I was just letting her know it's not a piece of cake to get someone's name off an account.</div>

playtntsbpg30 · July 2010

"I've already been on a date since FI and I broke up. It was great and I'm totally conflicted about whether or not it's too soon to move on. I guess there is no true "waiting period" but, it's still a little unsettling that I was able to move on THIS quickly"

This!

I haven't been on a date yet, but I been talking to a guy I known for years and have a "date" set up for when I go back home.
I often wonder about the "waiting period" but, I just never know if there is one or if it's just pretty much based on other's opinions on what they think, truly it's based on yourself of being able to move on.

megk8oz · July 2010

I'm confessing that there are days, like today, where I wish we could afford for me to be a SAHW. But at the same time, I know it's a pointless wish, because even if we could, DH wouldn't stand for me not working. Can't say I blame him ... but I could still want to not work anymore just the same.

tidetravel · July 2010

I confess that I'm getting really tired of DH's whining about how hard it is alone w/ Taryn. We're both stressed, I get it. But when I call him to vent about my day stuck in the hotel room alone, I don't want to hear him cut me off to complain about not having any breaks away from the baby.

JennaV26 · July 2010

<div align="left">In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:17da6151-29dc-4368-b06c-7c5e048af0e0">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: confessions : Oh, of course that's an option. I was just letting her know it's not a piece of cake to get someone's name off an account.
Posted by sarahmk5[/QUOTE]

That's definitely good information to know. I didn't know that. FI and I decided to take all but $10 out of the account and open our own accounts where we're moving; then, I made him promise me that if we don't need his parent's "emergency money" after 4 months that the account will be closed completely.

But I will watch it like a hawk to make sure that FFIL is not using the account for any illegal activities other than the crime of pissing me off!</div>

LP11509 · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:f277708d-47ed-44e5-b818-543c6daef540">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]I confess that I can't wait to move so that I can get FI as far away from his parents as possible. His mother tried to tell me that she and FFIL are planning to keep FFIL's name on FI's bank account when we move so if we need money they can get it to us quickly. Two things: 1. FI is about to be MARRIED; therefore, NO we do NOT plan on having any bank accounts with his dad's name on it. There will be no parental access to our bank accounts 2. You need to let go woman!!!! I understand he is your baby but he's a grown man, deal with it!
Posted by JennaV26[/QUOTE]

Yikes! I agree that his parents do NOT need to be on his/your account after you two are married. However, I was actually just at the bank this past Saturday talking about this. i've had the same bank account since I was 14, so it has both of my parents names on it. I had actually completely forgotten about this until I tried to add FI to my account. They said that I couldn't because 3 was the max people that could be on it, and once you add someone you can't take them off. Instead, you have to close the account and open a new one. This is with PNC bank in MD, so I don't know if the same rules apply to your bank/state...but just a heads up!

Nebb · July 2010

Im really upset about ninjavideo being pulled off the net, apparently they pulled themselves off but they did it because of all the seizures and piracy crap going on. Ninjavideo was the BEST site ive ever used for viewing shows and it is so upsetting that its gone, considering im in canada and its harder for us here to watch things there. Ive been looking stuff up online and there are saveninjavideo twitters and blogs and its so sad because there are real people working there who are in limbo and its just sad. I also am going nuts without being able to watch my shows

JennaV26 · July 2010

I have another confession:

I am irrationally terrified of pool drains and I while swimming in someone's pool this weekend that had 4 drains, I stayed in the shallow end unless someone else was with me in the deep end. I'm so lame.

aprovencher21 · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:35cc4c40-8951-4dd1-b474-f0722da43736">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]I have another confession: I am irrationally terrified of pool drains and I while swimming in someone's pool this weekend that had 4 drains, I stayed in the shallow end unless someone else was with me in the deep end. I'm so lame.
Posted by JennaV26[/QUOTE]

=) I always convince myself that somehow a shark has gotten into the deep end of our pool. I love swimming but at certain times in the day the sun is blocked from that end of the pool and you cannot see much in it. Freaks me out.

brookelynpaisley · July 2010

I'm dreading my sister's bridesmaids dress pick for her wedding. I already hate the colors and she's a fan of strapless. I look like a linebacker in strapless. I'm hoping to be pregnant so I have a valid reason for requesting a different style.

Anysunrise111 · July 2010

I confess that I've spent most of the last two days crying everytime I roll over to the right side of my bed. FI and I are currently 1300 miles apart, and he just left here on Sunday morning after spending the week. I hadn't seen him for 4 months before that, but now my pillows smell like him and I can't help but be a big baby about it.

Anysunrise · July 2010

Whoops. This account. You know, in case that was hard to figure out.

future-mrs · July 2010

Let's see, I ate a package of M&M's today and a piece of chocolate cake and I want more sweets...

I've pretty much not done anything productive at work today.

I'm stressing about bills this week...wait, that's every week.

missy68 · July 2010

I just wrote about this on E, but the showdown with Jake and Vienna really hit a nerve with me. Jake argues like my ex-husband did, and it is/was infuriating. And, I agree - if he was like that with her for the past 6 months, then he was emotionally abusive in a way. It's just tied my stomach in knots. Plus, God help me, I sided with and felt sorry for, Vienna.

That's last sentence is probably the confession....

JennaV26 · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:3eb676cb-99e3-4442-9d62-4f3ab7434bd6Post:11bcd08b-6041-46d2-9030-5e42bd32b9e3">Re: confessions</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: confessions : =) I always convince myself that somehow a shark has gotten into the deep end of our pool. I love swimming but at certain times in the day the sun is blocked from that end of the pool and you cannot see much in it. Freaks me out.
Posted by aprovencher21[/QUOTE]

I used to do this sometimes haha I don't swim in lakes or rivers because I can't see the bottom.

nda_roxybabe · July 2010

I just realized I don't have a dress for the wedding and I leave in one week...

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