So two weeks ago MOH and I planned a big wedding shopping trip, including shoe and jewelry shopping for the bridesmaids. My sister asked if she could come, and the time we were going even fit into her schedule, and yet she didn't go with us. She told us that whatever shoe we pick, it needs to come in wide sizes.
So we pick a shoe, and I needed my sister to just go and try it on to see if it fits her. We planned to go last Saturday... so my other sister and I waited at my house for her to show up... and she called and cancelled, saying let's go this wekeend instead.
So on FB, she writes "answer your phone! we need to talk about this weekend.... tight schedule"
WTF?!! She has done this Every. Single. Time. Some of you might remember the dress shopping trip where she cancelled, so I went and picked a dress myself, and she was beyond p!ssed. I mean, why bother even wanting to be a bridesmaid? I'm ready to call her up and tell her to forget it!!
Re: Why bother being a bridesmaid??? (Rant)
I say just tell her where to go and what to get. Dont be accomodating to someone who isnt even trying.
I honestly think you have done everything you can and at this point you just need to do things for YOU. If she can't come this weekend then that's her issue. You really have gone above and beyond...at this point, I would stop going out of your way.
Hugs!
My sisters are 20 and 18 and the 20 year old was a bit rude about the first few bm dresses I liked I told her I would wear a potato bag to her wedding if that's what she wanted so I hope she likes the final dress we all agree on (luckily she does) but I'm buying the thing so she is going to wear it if she wants to be in the wedding
What ticks me off now is that she just sent me a text saying that she is free by 1:30 so can we go then, she just has plans at 6. First of all, our other sister, who waited with me last Saturday for all of us to go, doesn't get out of work until 3. Second, when we rearranged plans last weekend, sister told me that she would keep the whole day free. And today our other sister told me that sister had plans with the boyfriend, and that's why she thinks she is all of a sudden busy. I don't even know how to reply to a text like that, like nothing was ever wrong.
Ridiculous, I'm so sorry. Is there any way you could plan a lunch or something where you promise not to talk about any wedding stuff (and just sort of hope whatever issues she's having will come out and things will be better)?