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How did you meet FI?

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  • edited December 2011
    We met in Highschool ( I had a crush on his friend and ended up hanging around and got to know him instead) and dated our Junior and Senior years. I went off to college and we split up and didn't speak for almost 7 years.

    We met up again in 2009  through facebook when he saw I was in HR and reached out to me to help him find a job. We started talking on the phone and seeing each other more often and we have been inseperable ever since!

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  • justad0remejustad0reme member
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    edited December 2011
    We met through a mutual friend in college, he went to NJIT and I went to Rutgers-Newark (right accross the street from each other).  One time I went to a meet the greeks at NJIT to support one of my friends who was stepping at the event.  I remember being on the phone outside the student center and I seeing this cute guy, we just stared at each other and smiled.  Then my other friend came over and we went in and I didn't see him again.  After the event was over, I told my friend about the cute guy I saw outside the student center and being sneaky she tried to figure out who he was by asking around, it turns out it was her friend!  She introduced us and then the rest of history ;]
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  • edited December 2011
    We met at work and were both in other relationships at the time (scandal! haha). 
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  • edited December 2011
    Seriously...Myspace four years ago. LOL He was the only random guy that messaged me on there that I EVER responded to - and now we are getting married. haha I saw on his page that we shared a lot of common interests and it said he was getting his MBA at the time, so I figured he may actually be a normal human being and I should just respond and see what happens. I tell everyone the truth about how we met, but he's embarrassed by it and tells his friends we met through a mutual friend. lol
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  • edited December 2011
    At a bar.   Who knew people actually met at bars?!  Though I will admit, it was the bar at a W hotel, so it was at least a swanky one!
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  • tstrayer27tstrayer27 member
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    edited December 2011
    We graduated high school together, but didn't know each other. Our graduating class was almost 400. We were both friends with someone from high school that we kept in touch with afterwards and in his senior year of college came home for break. Our mutual friend asked if I wanted to go out with him and a bunch of friends and I said sure and met FI then. We've been together since and that was over 7 years ago! :)
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  • edited December 2011
    Match.com....How else to find the computer geek of your dreams (who only lived 7 blocks away, but would have never bumped into me downtown), than online!  LOL.  
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  • uppereastgirluppereastgirl member
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    edited December 2011
    During college orientation.  He lived across the hall from people I knew from high school and I became very good friends with him and his roommate.  We didn't start dating until sophomore year though.
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  • edited December 2011
    We met working at Target while we were both in high school -- he was a senior and I was a junior.  Turns out we lived in neighboring towns and had some mutual friends but had never met.  I had a boyfriend at the time, but we immediately became best friends and starting dating a few months after.  We met almost 8 years ago!
  • edited December 2011
    We met on PlentyofFish.com.  He had just resurfaced from getting his heart broken and was urged to go on to meet people.  I was on to leave nice comments on a friend's board so he could look desirable (so awful lol).  He looked at my profile but didn't message me, which annoyed me bc I thought he was so cute.  I messaged him saying, I see that you're too good to talk to me huh?  He wrote me back saying he thought a lawyer would never be interested in a chef.  We've been together since :)
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  • kristen8040kristen8040 member
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    edited December 2011
    another match.com :)  I had just moved to philly and didn't really know anyone, and his friends were sick of him being single so they made an account for him.  We went out for our first date in Chestnut Hill, Philly and that was it!
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  • edited December 2011
    We met at the Jersey Shore 8 1/2 years ago. I was in high school and he was in college.  My next door neighbor at the time lifeguarded with FI.  He set us up a a summer fling...We talked for 2.5 years before we started dating....we just celebrated 5 official years December 2010.
  • mbcdefgmbcdefg member
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    edited December 2011

    Our college had a radio station, and I joined up in the early fall with a girlfriend. She had a class with MH, they became friends and she convinced him to join near the end of the fall semester right before winter break, and we met there. He IM'ed me a bit over the break, we became friendly once spring semester started, we went on a date in March and that's that.

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  • sgdc2011sgdc2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    College, a mutual friend introduced us.
  • RamsKR01RamsKR01 member
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    edited December 2011
    We are both teachers in the same high school.  We kept it a secret but after we got engaged the students were so excited (some of them suspected it, but never knew for sure) :-)
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  • maybride527maybride527 member
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    edited December 2011
    at work - i'm a child life specialist and he was a resident doing a six week rotation in the pediatric OR. we were friendly with each other but because of my "no dating at work" rule, i never even considered him as possible boyfriend material. a year later,  i ran into him at a work event and there was some great chemistry between us. i decided to ditch that silly rule and accepted his offer for dinner the next weekend. we dated for just over a year before he proposed in central park - our wedding is this may!
  • shoebieshoebie member
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    edited December 2011
    He beat me in beer pong so i threw the ball at his head lol
  • edited December 2011
    At College, my freshmen year. He was suitemates with my best friend and we just became really close. 4 years later and we are getting married and that best friend is one of the groomsmen!
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  • goaliegirlgoaliegirl member
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    edited December 2011
    We both play hockey...I am a goalie and he is a forward.  We were playing on opposite teams.   Yes, I play in a men's league.  Anyhow, he came down the ice and took a shot against me and I made a great save, which I still to this day don't know how I saved it.   He was impressed, so after the game came over to me and we started talking.   The guys from our teams were going out after the game to a bar down the street from the rink and he asked if I was going.   I decided to go and we hung out and talked, and ended up going on a date a week later and here we are 5 years later!    I guess it is a good thing that I played well that game or else maybe we would have never talked..LOL
  • edited December 2011
    We actually met through a mutual friend back when we were 17. At the time, I had a BF and he had a GF, but he got my number from our mutual friend and would always invite me to parties he was having. About 2yrs. later, everything fell into place with us and we've been together ever since. We will be getting married 3 days after our 10 year anniversary. Our mutual friend, is one of his BM at our wedding =)
  • NJgurl19NJgurl19 member
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    edited December 2011
    Through mutual friends in high-school.
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  • erpooh15erpooh15 member
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    edited December 2011
    Match.com.   He was the last person I was responding to before I shut my account and I was his last respond he was sending... :)
  • edited December 2011
    High School but didn't start officially dating until he was away at college.
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    On the train while commuting.
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  • edited December 2011
    we met in high school in '98. we had a crush on each other but just remained friends. we then lost touch in '02 and were both in long relationships (him 6 yrs, me 7 yrs) then, we reconnected through facebook in '09 after a friend of his passed and i wrote to send him condolences. we've spoken every day since. he proposed 6 months later. :)
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  • jcg98jcg98 member
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    edited December 2011
    In my very first class in grad school! Everyone was nervous and sitting kinda quietly, until he cracked a joke and I laughed. A friendship developed, and two mutual friends - now married to each other - helped us realize we were meant for each other! Those friends are in our BP. :-)

    And I have to mention my great aunt, who passed away last year at 100 years of age, told me for years that I should go to grad school b/c she was convinced I'd meet my match. Auntie Rose was a wise woman!
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    edited December 2011
    In a movie theater parking lot. haha.  
  • edited December 2011
    In Physics Recitation Junior year of college. We had broken up into groups of 4 to review our homework. Found out we had attended the same anime convention the past summer, had a mutual love for sushi and japanese culture. We've been joined at the hip since =)
  • edited December 2011
    We went to high-school together but never even had a conversation.  The december after we graduated high-school we ended up at a mutual friends party.  He asked me to be his beer pong partner we ruled the table all night long.  After that we started to talk on the phone and one date lead to another.  After dating for 2 1/2 years (we dated from 18-21) I decided that I needed to be single for a while.  I wanted to graduate college travel with friends and live with a girlfriend for a year since I never went away to school. I pretty much just wanted to discover who I was and figure out what I wanted to do with my life.  Then 4 years later we both had shore houses a block away from one another in Manasquan.  I texted him drunk my first weekend down the shore and now the rest is history.  We own a house, a dog and we are getting married next summer. 

    I don't think we would have ever made it if we didn't take that 4 year break it gave us time to grow up and mature. 
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