We are having a destination wedding in Florida, and I already know that not everyone we want there will be able to make it, which is also a reason we chose to do a destination wedding, we wanted to keep it on the small side (mainly to save money on reception food! and to keep it initmate)
There are some people that I would like to have a the wedding, but I know will more than likely decline because of the travel, but if I know this, can I just invite them to the shower? Or is that rude? Or should I just send them the invite to the wedding and see whether they decline or not?
And all the others that we have on the B list, that we will more than likely not invite to the wedding because we wouldn't be able to accomodate them, would it be rude to invite them to the shower? They will understand that we can't afford to have everyone at the wedding, right? I don't want to invite them to the shower just to get a gift out of them, I want to invite them to the shower because of the fact that I wouldn't be able to have them at the wedding. And could I still invite them to the bachelorette or bachelor party?
I can't wait to marry my best friend!
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