Okay, so my finace and I are trying to figure out a happy median for our food options. One of the things we are tossing around are hors d'oeuvres. I am not sure we need them and he thinks we do. The thing is my mom is having people over between the ceremony and the reception. She is having drinks and hors d'oeuvres. I am not convinced that we need this at our reception and would rather have late night food after everyone has been dancing and drinking-what are your thoughts? Do you have to have hors d'oeuvres and do people expect them?