So a while back FI said he didn't think his dad would wear a tux. We're having a pretty casual wedding, but the groomsmen are still going to be in tuxes. I didn't think anything of it at the time. But now that I'm thinking about it and looking at tuxes for the guys, I want my dad to wear a tux, I mean he's walking me down the aisle. I mentioned this to FI and he said he wasn't going to make his dad wear a tux because it's too much hassel. My grandma suggested that the ushers wear tuxes too (my brother will be one of these and she insists he stands out a bit). He thought this was silly. So I asked what was his dad going to wear, a button down shirt with a tie and slacks? FI responded saying probably a polo and nice pants. I freaked a little. Am I being bridezilla over this? I know you can't dictate what people wear, but in general I thought the dad's wore tuxes. I feel like it'd look ridiculous in photos if his dad was wearing a polo and mine was in a tux.