So my fiance is Jewish, but we are having a Catholic ceremony. Every thing that is said will be modified to be more "neutral" and the ceremony is being run by a deacon and isn't going on in a church. That being said, I know in a Jewish wedding, the mother and father of the groom usually walk side by side down the aisle with him. I'm am afraid to approach this with my in-laws, but I feel like this would look very strange because I am only walking with my father. I would prefer that my fiance just already be at the alter when I arrive. He doesn't care what we do, but I just think his mother is going to flip out when she finds out she isn't walking him down the aisle.
I have come up with one idea, that being that Mike gets walked down the aisle before I arrive, his parents take their seats etc, and then he is waiting at the alter.
I really think the whole arm in arm with both parents looks weird but that's probably just me...