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Re: How is this unconstitutional

  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_this-unconstitutional?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:3bc2aca6-7ca6-48f4-888e-a8de6094e653Post:dd61de51-2c4b-479b-9f91-8586158370b2">Re: How is this unconstitutional</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: How is this unconstitutional : I think this argument is over and done with. I'm calling it a night on TK I have a lot of hw to do. Night everyone
    Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]

    Wow, I was on your side on this one until this post.  You know how this board works - just stop posting if you don't want to continue the conversation.

    I also think it's important to care about topics that might not affect you directly (I like how Spiffy put it - if your friend didn't want to change her name and this was a law, you might care more).  But still, I respect the fact that you didn't fully understand the topic or the issue, so you did more questioning - you didn't necessarily pick a side and defend it mindlessly.  You asked the June board, you asked us, you asked your history teacher.  I will always respect someone who doesn't know something and tries to learn more.  Learning is good. 

    And it seems you did have an open mind about it - you see our point (even though I hadn't posted yet, basically just repeat exactly what Matcha said - she phrased it VERY well), but it isn't a big issue so it's kind of like, "Oh, okay.  That makes sense.  Not going to go blogging about it or creating a website, and doesn't really change my life, but yeah, makes sense."

    And I do think it's a bit annoying the June board followed her over here when she really didn't do anything.  I do get the history behind it, because we obviously have it, too, but still - that seems like a bully-ish thing to do, and I'm really anti-bullying.  And it really wasn't called for in this situation.

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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    I would HATE if I HAD to change my name. I couldn't wait to change my name because it meant I wouldn't have the same one as my sister anymore. 

    I feel like this is very sexiest. Hubs and I had talked a lot about name changing. At one point he even suggested us taking both names. I'm glad I'm taking his name but if I was forced to, I would fight it.


    I hope this makes sense
    Military Brides December 2011 Siggy. Holiday picture with your SO. We suck and don't have one :/ Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.
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  • IrishcurlsIrishcurls member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_this-unconstitutional?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:3bc2aca6-7ca6-48f4-888e-a8de6094e653Post:f0efdbda-2467-4501-ad2f-92b8af2c5413">Re: How is this unconstitutional</a>:
    [QUOTE]I would HATE if I HAD to change my name. I couldn't wait to change my name because it meant I wouldn't have the same one as my sister anymore.  I feel like this is very sexiest. Hubs and I had talked a lot about name changing. At one point he even suggested us taking both names. <strong>I'm glad I'm taking his name but if I was forced to, I would fight it. I hope this makes sense</strong>
    Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]
    I actually totally agree with that. I'm in no rush but do want to have the same name eventually. But tell me "have to" anything and I get all pissy.
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_this-unconstitutional?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:3bc2aca6-7ca6-48f4-888e-a8de6094e653Post:dfc14ce0-f7a7-4734-8c1e-be32a893d21e">Re: How is this unconstitutional</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: How is this unconstitutional : I actually totally agree with that. I'm in no rush but do want to have the same name eventually. But tell me "have to" anything and I get all pissy.
    Posted by Irishcurls[/QUOTE]
    I'm in a little bit of a hurry with somethings. (Passport, id, SS) but other things not so much (DPSST, the bank, getting checks)<div>
    </div><div>I'm very much against being told I "have to" do anything. I do things my way in my own time</div>
    Military Brides December 2011 Siggy. Holiday picture with your SO. We suck and don't have one :/ Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.
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