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chelseamb11 · January 2012

I don't get why LDY making jokes about everything is so bad. yeah it gets to be a little bit too much at times, but I think it just shows that she lets it roll off her back. Better to be jokes than to flip a switch, take it all personally and go all BSC.

RobotLegs · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:7038637e-8424-4f7e-9fb7-57cd54defb26">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Kiki....you said "It's highly unlikely." So, I guess that's not saying "I ABSOLUTELY WILL NOT," but I think we both know what you were trying to accomplish. But that was already hashed out in the thread. <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-78_.8">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-78_.8</a>
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

Meh, it's irrelevant now. I posted pics, I deleted them. I'm wishy-washy.

Steph0871 · January 2012

woah, LVB.

FWIW, I always said it was stupid that people criticized Kiki for it, so there's that.

ETA: and I think it's probably because Kiki talked about like right at the same time she said she was pregnant (and said people were stupid for putting up tickers at 4 weeks, and then did the same thing.) Not that I agree with what happened with Kiki, because I don't. But I think that's where it came from.

And, TBH, I kind of expected people to blast me about it.

LP11509 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:ece85d1c-f4cc-4322-935d-ad1dbdc5ea8f">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : you mean the saturday night special?
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

<div>I knew there was a reason that Sunday is referred to as the day of rest. </div>

laladypoet · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:37df759d-1a02-4413-891f-f6a6435cfbed">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Speaking of that thread. NOT THAT I THINK THERE'S ANYTHING WRONG WITH THE ACT. I THINK YOU'RE A FUCKTARD IF YOU DO. BUT. There was so much hypocracy between Steph's pregancy and Kikis. KIKI DIDN'T KNOW SHE WAS PREGNANT AND DRANK IN VEGAS. I might be mistaken, but didn't Steph have the SAME EXACT thing happen to her and NO ONE called her on it, yet ripped KIKI a new vaganus? Everyone was out for blood for Kiki, but Steph is a little SB golden child and no one dared mention it. So. There's that.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]
so, she didn't know she was pregnant, got drunk, and people were pissed at her for it? wtf? I have a friend who found out she was pregnant, and celebrated by doing shots of tequila. so I mean...yeah.

louisvillebride21 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:28e746f0-61f6-4fc7-855e-0783d508d265">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE] But the whole idea for flaming the most banned person on here because I haven't been banned in a year is just stupid. I HAVE STREET CRED AZZHOLES.
Posted by Snippylynn[/QUOTE]
Oh come ON. No one was flamming you for not being banned. Get off your own pedstal.<div>
</div><div>And see folks? We get along. But I don't mind flaming her. That's how it SHOULD work around here. We're probably goign to have it out here in a second. And then in a few days? I'm assuming we'll be fine. I'll probably even comment on her FB sometiem soon. IT'S ALL OK.</div>

SunriseAmber · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:28e746f0-61f6-4fc7-855e-0783d508d265">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]The 'flame' for me last week was goddamn stupid. Am I soft? Yes, definitely. I never said I hadn't gone soft. I was arguing with the idea that I had gone soft because of Lucy. Which is what I had been accused of. But the whole idea for flaming the most banned person on here because I haven't been banned in a year is just stupid.<strong> I HAVE STREET CRED AZZHOLES.</strong>
Posted by Snippylynn[/QUOTE]

Touche'

Birdie1483 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:22c0f8fd-4829-4a67-b7dd-fbdbb4f772b0">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I guess, to be completely fair, it definitely wasn't just you, and it's everyone else that took it and ran. Ran a freaking 50k with it.
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

Thanks.

I was going to save this until after my meeting (which hopefully won't be long), but I've been pretty irritated this week with how I've been accused of doing stuff I haven't done.

Yes, I've said some controversial things in the last week. Some stupid, some justified IMO. But I feel like I've just been the scapegoat for a lot of it by some people who post mostly on SB and I think it's bull shiit. I want to be able to post on both boards if I want to and I feel like I've been targeted or something because I've posted over there more recently and I'm an "Eener". I'll own when I say something, but I'm definitely not the only one bringing up these things. And I don't think we can lay the blame on either board for the recent drama. People on both sides have been saying stuff back and right.

Personally, I like drama. It's been a bit hard this week because Wednesday was the first time I was ever really flamed on the boards and it was apparently flame Birdie day. But I'll deal with it. But I'd rather be flamed for stuff that I actually said than to be flamed for stuff that someone else actually said.

annakb8 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:846f42b8-f045-4676-914a-c544f20958ea">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I dont "know" Anna, but when I said she had changed it was because I was really enjoying her contributions to threads because I found her thoughtful and interesting, but the last week or 2 her style changed. She went from interesting and willing to debate to going a little off the chart (IMO) with the blood stuff and Hitler. Maybe it was just an off week for her. Who knows.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

<div>Or maybe I just disagreed with most of the people in the thread and kept saying what I thought anyway. Which for the record, the main points are that it's shitty to call a person "gross" or disgusting for something the are/do that has absolutely no affect on anyone else on Planet Earth. And that I think in general it is not a coincidence that people who get grossed out by their own bodies also don't know how their own bodies work. </div><div>
</div><div>And I could have been working things poorly, it happens. But it seemed like people were purposely misunderstand what I said. I NEVER said that you had to play with period blood to understand how babies were born or any of that shiit. Mostly I just don't think it's cool to call people gross unless the really deserve it. Hence Hitler. Lame example, but whatever. At least it gave everyone a really awesome joke for a few weeks, right? And I know I'm not in charge of what anyone else says, I was just contributing my point of view to the discussion. Just like anyone else. </div><div>
</div><div>Anyway, I didn't really want to get into this again but it got brought back up so whatever. I'm not going to spend the whole afternoon speculating on whether or not I've "changed."</div><div>
</div><div>
</div>

laladypoet · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:49134498-98a5-4808-92e4-570bd56146f9">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I mean, if you want to demean it that way, sure.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]
and by "demean" I assume you mean "give a Cosby sweater to"?

J&K10910 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:04e464dd-b70f-4c66-8af9-99a862a5990f">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Meh, it's irrelevant now. I posted pics, I deleted them. I'm wishy-washy.
Posted by RobotLegs[/QUOTE]

You AWed a picture at least twice, if you really want to be specific.

But yes, you surely did delete them. And wishy-washy is something I can agree with you about.

RobotLegs · January 2012

I can't believe the drinking thing is still coming up. It was almost a full year ago.

Hey y'all, my baby doesn't have FAS, yay.

louisvillebride21 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:d1f4f14b-bf96-48e8-9c67-529a2ecdc3d8">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : so, she didn't know she was pregnant, got drunk, and people were pissed at her for it? wtf? I have a friend who found out she was pregnant, and celebrated by doing shots of tequila. so I mean...yeah.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
Yup, that's about the sum of it. But it's bullshit that one person gets a new one and the other is 'allowed' to skate by unscathed.<div>
</div><div>Point being, Kiki should have been allowed to skate by unscathed too. Not have had AATB run and tattle to the bump and then get laughed off. Although, thinking about it, it woudl be cool if that happened again. Cause that shiit was hilarious. </div>

Blueyed228 · January 2012

I dont have an opinion either way on who does what while pregnant, but I dont think Stef and Kiki's situation is the same. Kiki was actively TTC and Stef wasnt.

But whatever. Its not my business what people do while TTC or pregnant.

SarahPLiz · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:28e746f0-61f6-4fc7-855e-0783d508d265">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]The 'flame' for me last week was goddamn stupid. Am I soft? Yes, definitely. I never said I hadn't gone soft. I was arguing with the idea that I had gone soft because of Lucy. Which is what I had been accused of. But the whole idea for flaming the most banned person on here because I haven't been banned in a year is just stupid. I HAVE STREET CRED AZZHOLES.
Posted by Snippylynn[/QUOTE]
I may be wrong, but I thought the issue was that Kiki knew she might be pregnant and chose to drink and Steph didn't realize she might be pregnant and stopped drinking when she realized the possibility.<div>
</div><div>OR it could be that all the drinking while pregnant stuff was already hashed out with KiKi and no one wanted to beat that dead horse anymore. </div>

laladypoet · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:5abac4e5-7973-4a92-a8a0-a53fbe4805c0">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I don't get why LDY making jokes about everything is so bad. yeah it gets to be a little bit too much at times, but I think it just shows that she lets it roll off her back. Better to be jokes than to flip a switch, take it all personally and go all BSC.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

I agree with this too. I haven't seen LDY in awhile, and I don't remember her posting style, but I find that in general you shouldn't take the internet too seriously.

adamar15 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:5abac4e5-7973-4a92-a8a0-a53fbe4805c0">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I don't get why LDY making jokes about everything is so bad. yeah it gets to be a little bit too much at times, but I think it just shows that she lets it roll off her back. Better to be jokes than to flip a switch, take it all personally and go all BSC.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

It's annoying when it's done every.time something gets a little uncomfortable. Change it up every now and then. Try a different bit.

LDYGTR13 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:28e746f0-61f6-4fc7-855e-0783d508d265">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]The 'flame' for me last week was goddamn stupid. Am I soft? Yes, definitely. I never said I hadn't gone soft. I was arguing with the idea that I had gone soft because of Lucy. Which is what I had been accused of. <strong>But the whole idea for flaming the most banned person on here because I haven't been banned in a year is just stupid. I HAVE STREET CRED AZZHOLES.</strong>
Posted by Snippylynn[/QUOTE]
We weren't flaming you because youhaven't been banned...we were flaming you because you have gone soft by posting things like "Lucy is so cuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuute!!!" and things. It's okay to change. But trying to bring up the fact that you used to get banned a lot is kinda lame. <div>
</div><div>And I still think you've gone soft and Lucy was a contributing factor.</div>

Rosie109 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:caf7af11-33c0-481c-8dba-fbbc9f7cc44f">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I KNEW IT.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

It has changed my posting style as well. I apologize to TK as a whole for this.

J&K10910 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:fa7a800a-386b-45d5-963a-c4904f3cf255">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yup, that's about the sum of it. But it's bullshit that one person gets a new one and the other is 'allowed' to skate by unscathed. Point being, Kiki should have been allowed to skate by unscathed too. Not have had AATB run and tattle to the bump and then get laughed off. Although, thinking about it, it woudl be cool if that happened again. Cause that shiit was hilarious.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

So who exactly are you flaming here? Everyone that busted on Kiki and not on Steph? Just for clarity.

Steph0871 · January 2012

Kiki- fwiw, I think this is a ridiculous thing to be talking about still.

(Although, I totally get LVB's point about it being hypocritical.)

Blueyed228 · January 2012

Anna- for me change doesnt mean bad. It was just something I noticed.

annakb8 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:387ee733-cd88-4c0e-ab66-c70d36f16c93">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : FWIW, I also think your posting has changed, and I certainly haven't had any disagreements with you lately that I'm aware of. Maybe it's you "coming into your own" here, or who knows what, but i<strong>t just feels like you've got a little extra confidence behind all your posts.</strong>
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Is this a problem? I mean I've never really been afraid to say what I think on here. People have disagreed with me before without me backing down. So maybe it has happened more often? But it isn't totally new or out of the blue.

</div>

louisvillebride21 · January 2012

Kiki had a negative pregancy test. What the fuuck else is she supposed to think? Get off your GD highhorse and pick one side or the other.

RobotLegs · January 2012

JK, whaaaat is your point?

I said, in a bad mood on a bad day, "I probably won't post pics." A month or however long later, I decided I would. Because I had a baby and I was excited and proud.

OKAY.

Rosie109 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:bbf59bfd-f720-4c74-9abb-1e9f8f0134bf">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I can't believe the drinking thing is still coming up. It was almost a full year ago. <strong>Hey y'all, my baby doesn't have FAS, yay.
</strong>Posted by RobotLegs[/QUOTE]

Pics or it didn't happen.

emilyinchile · January 2012

Blue, I have a totally random question: why do you spell it Stef? I've just always wondered.

louisvillebride21 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:386296a5-ed12-4441-bb67-e484b3794698">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : So who exactly are you flaming here? Everyone that busted on Kiki and not on Steph? Just for clarity.
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]
Yes, exactly. No person exactly, everyone that flammed Kiki in general over it. So, it's a cross board, all encompasing flame. Boom, that happened.

laladypoet · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:fe5c8964-33ea-42a5-a87a-81b4032eda64">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : It has changed my posting style as well. I apologize to TK as a whole for this.
Posted by Rosie109[/QUOTE]
they all changed their posting styles in africa. they post like drunk babies now. drunk babies doing drive-bys.

none of that made sense.

boardwar.

Blueyed228 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:3e955d3c-2199-4155-b58b-b6f6230a06e8">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Kiki had a negative pregancy test. What the fuuck else is she supposed to think? Get off your GD highhorse and pick one side or the other.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

I didnt have an opinion on it then and I dont have an opinion on it now. So I dont have a horse to get off of.

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