So, most of you know that I got divorced from J, and the entire marriage lasted for 10-ish months. We're coming up on what would be our 1 year anniversary shortly.
Last night, one of our (mutual) friends started texting me, to check and see how I was doing. He and I have talked some since everything happened, and is in fact one of the only mutual friends that we had who has bothered to contact me. I thought it was odd because he was asking on what date the divorce finalized.
He proceeds to tell me that J cheated on me throughout our entire relationship. This isn't even the worst part. He met a girl the summer before the wedding and continued to cheat with her the whole time that we were married.
Turns out that shortly after I moved out, J moved this girl into his house. And she was 6-8 weeks pregnant at that point. So he got her pregnant right around the time he told me that he wanted a divorce (from what I can figure out), and he has her and her 2 year old son living in the house with him.
She's due in June. It's a boy. The friend has seen the sonogram.
So there's some drama for your Tuesday afternoon. I'm OK. BUT I am going to change my username to have one that's not at all associated with him.
I reserve the right to DD this post.