Hi all, my fiance and I are getting re-married! We live in NC and MD and we are having our wedding in Orlando, FL and people are questioning why we don't want to have it at home (MD or NC). Its a bit irritating. Our reason is we are getting married again and we are doing it our way, small and intimate. We are only inviting clsoe friends and family so because of this we want to make our honeymoon also our ceremony location and if they are "close" they might enjoy the vacation too.
Are we wrong to bring the guests to our honeymoon destination? and since we are having a small ceremony we are doing it outside at a garden venue and going to a restaurant after for dinner. We are not doing a formal reception. Are we supposed to pay for their dinners or is it tacky to have them pay their own bill?