Hi everyone,
My FI is a firefighter and we have asked his Captain to officiate our wedding ceremony as neither of us is religious. Problem is, he is not ordained or anything so we have two options: (1) Ask him to get ordained on the internet or (2) get married at the courthouse by ourselves (and just keep it to ourselves) and have him perform a 'ceremonial' ceremony (for lack of a better phrase lol) later with all of our friends and family present. What is the better option? I'm worried he will think getting ordained on the internet is weird.
Thanks for any advice!