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Re: Is it tacky to not give out favors?
Rather than just assuming all favors are junk, and your money would better be spent on a charity, why don't you take the time to think of something guests will really appreciate. Try to make it personal. A favour is about showing your guests how much you appreciate them being a part of your life and your marriage. If you don't have the $$ for a favor, don't do one. Take the time instead to write a personal note to each guest.
Can someone please explain how a donation to a charity makes guests feel appreciated?
Your guests are at your wedding to celebrate the beginning of your marriage. The reality is most favors, unless edible are thrown away withing a year. The exception being if the "favor" is an expensive item which might quallfy it as a thank you gift ,not a "thank-you" favor.
Your active interaction with every guest during your reception, other than the quick "thank you for attending" while they are in the receiving line is much more of a "favor" than a trinket to take home.
[QUOTE]I've been pondering this question as well...and what I've decided is that I don't remember the favors at the last wedding I went to, but I do remember the wonderful food and generosity of an open wine bar. So, with that being said, I believe we will be putting our money into the items that people will enjoy and maybe just having some fall-colored candy on the tables (wedding in Oct.). Hope this is helpful!
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My FI and I have been on the fence with this as well and I am glad to know I am not in the minority!
I like the idea of a dessert-candy-cookie bar- hey people love weddings because they are celebrating two awesome people starting their lives together by having great food, an open bar and a party! So why not give them a little extra instead of something they always forget to take home.
I think donations are wonderful. I make them often. I believe in donating to charities that are meaningful and important to ME and MY family. But I don't believe that they are in any way, shape, or form a "favor" to your guests.
They are a favor to the charity, and to those who benefit from the charity. But can anyone explain to me how giving money to someone else is a favor for me?
Think about the word favor: "I'm going to do you a favor and shovel your driveway this winter." Wonderful!! Now what if someone said "I'm going to do you a favor and shovel my invalid cousin's driveway this winter." See what I mean? It's a favor: for the invalid cousin. But it's not anything for me.
I DON'T need a favor. I don't really WANT a favor at a wedding. After all, you've presumably given me dinner, drinks, and good entertainment already. A tulle pouch filled with Hershey's kisses isn't going to make or break your wedding. But at least they're for me.
Make your donation. But why the need to announce it to your guests? That's where it becomes wrong. Because your guests don't need to know that you made a donation. As the old Nike ad said: "Just do it". I'll add to the slogan: "Just don't announce it."
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