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missy68 · June 2010

Um, I'd like to take back most of the piss- poor decisions I made between 1993 and 2004. That would eliminate most male-related stupidity, including my first marriage.

I add the caveat that I'd like September-October of 1994 to remain, because that's when I got Maggie.

EDITED to change 2004 to 1994. Under the influence of sleep med. It took me a long time to type that post..

squirrly · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_takesies-backsies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ae1010e1-e1d6-44ee-91c8-de102ec1d9d5Post:dfd48844-d3b7-4a81-a751-210e7ab707d3">Re: Takesies Backsies...</a>:
[QUOTE]2004-2008?
Posted by arbolita[/QUOTE]

Can I join you?

NuggetBrain · June 2010

I'd like to take back December 2003 through May 2004. I'm not willing to go into details, but I really would like to take that part of my life as a huge do-over.

I also want to take back not staying to visit with my grandpa the last night he was awake and aware. I had someplace to be, so I dropped my mom off and snuck out of the room without letting him know I was there because I didn't want to only get a minute to visit and then have to go and disappoint him. I planned on coming to sit with him the next night and hang out. He was in a coma-like state by the next day and passed within a week. I would give anything to have had even that one minute to give him one more hug.

I'd also take back forgetting to tell my brother an old friend of his called out of the blue to talk to him a few years back. KC was out of the house, and I took the message but forgot to tell him to call Miles back. Miles killed himself two days later and I still haven't told my brother because I think he will hate me for what I did.

Birdie1483 · June 2010

I would like to take back all of the stupid nights in college that I went out, got drunk, and made bad decisions with boys.

I would also take back not putting in more effort to become good friends with my sorority sisters in college when we first moved into the house. I had a boyfriend when we moved in and wasn't around much. I also didn't really know how to be friends with girls. It took me almost until I graduated to learn how to be good friends with girls, but I always feel like I missed out on a lot of friendships and memories by not being that close with them. Some of my experiences because of this taint my fun memories of college. There will always be mean girls in sororities, but maybe if I had closer friends they could have helped me cope with the mean girls.

acmj11 · June 2010

I would like to take back the night I met my ex-liar/cheater boyfriend. If I did that, then I wouldn't have to take back five whole years of my life...

jnic0319 · June 2010

I would like to take back all the stupid potentially reckless decisions I made in college. I also wish I would have listened to my dad and transferred to another school. At least I got FI out of that mess.

Meg1979 · June 2010

I was with my college boyfriend for almost four years (until he left me for the woman he eventually married) and I was with him from Freshman week on.I would have spent more time spending time with my friends and seeing other guys. I really regret that I got that serious, that fast. I don't regret the lessons I learned from that relationship, but I do regret how long we lasted.

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