I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.

jasmineh7777 · August 2010

Do you know when I first started "noticing" you Heels?
When someone asked if KPS would make people think before they post. You said Yes, that you would try to be nicer. And I really respect that so much. It's too bad that other posters don't take that to heart.

If you aren't comfortable, I totally understand. But, everyone on SB seems to get along. I enjoy when you post. I need the Republicans here! Who else will I argue politics with?

[Deleted User] · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:641e7b90-aad4-49dc-a998-e6d4de98e6e2">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]Yeah. Several times. Douchey, huh? Let me just state for the record that I didn't start this thread to get the call out blogs taken down for my personal benefit. Not that any of you would say that (hopefully) but I can just feel another E shitstorm coming on. But seriously,<strong> I feel like I have thicker skin than most</strong>. The thought of anyone else hurting because of something some dickwadcuntrag said on these blogs just tears me up.
Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE]

You really do. I admire you for how much you've been able to let roll off of your back.

jasmineh7777 · August 2010

No really, it pisses me off that people feel the need to bully others in to submission. That is bullshiit. And it makes me really mad.

goheels05 · August 2010

I love you Jas. Seriously. You have become one of my favorite knotties.

Mica, have you ever seen the website postsecret.com? Someone on The Knot made a similar website just for knotties. http://theknotpostsecret.tumblr.com. It's a pretty cool concept, but some people used it to submit nasty messages about other knotties. When the creator of the site realized what was going on, she put a stop to it. So now some asshats have started new sites where you can call out other knotties and say nasty things without it getting filtered out by the KPS admin.

Belle2Be · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:5da66075-2bf9-4407-8926-811dea884920">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]It's not one person, it's a lot of persons. The non-board-war-whateverthefuckyouwanttocallit, the passive aggressive digs via KPS and TNPS, the braces bullshit, I'm done. I have thick skin but I can only take so much. But don't worry, I can always come back as BlameCanada.
Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE]
For what its worth, as someone who has haunted another forum of over 4 years, it usually only seems like a lot of people don't like you, they are just the loudest. The number that do always greatly outnumber ones that don't, they are just harder to hear over the BS.

jasmineh7777 · August 2010

Thank you Heels.

I really think you are a good person, and a good friend to Cew and Bec. That's worth much more than any of this internet b.s.

It takes a lot to make me mad, but seriously, this is all too much.
I mean, people post of this board because we enjoy eachother. To continually bash people on this board that don't even post on E is childish and crappy. Continuous, umprompted comments like that are bullying, and that should not be allowed.

RachNRich · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:cd907e41-e9bc-46d1-a702-c580212f9a97">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit. : Sorry to hijack, what dress are you wearing?
Posted by Belle2Be[/QUOTE]
In my sig?<div>
</div><div>Justin Alexander 8313.</div><div>
</div><div>Or now? Cuz...well, I'm not wearing a dress right now <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-undecided.gif" border="0" alt="Undecided" title="Undecided" /></div>

[Deleted User] · August 2010

Shut up, Rach. You know you're wearing your wedding dress right now. You're creepy like that.

pirategal03 · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:7c201548-b6c5-46d7-9ae6-db3f42359b86">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]Thanks Petra. I've already submitted a request to TK to delete my account though.
Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE]

This makes me very sad.

[Deleted User] · August 2010

Well, Heels, I for one hope you stay. I know how much it sucks to have people make fun of you on here though. I've had people attack my looks, my H, people tell me my childhood abuse was my fault. They don't care about how it might hurt you, they just want to get a rise out of you and make you leave. Don't give them the satisfaction. Fvck 'em all.

[Deleted User] · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:e4206520-cb35-40af-b7b6-d409093ca558">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit. : For what its worth, as someone who has haunted another forum of over 4 years, it usually only seems like a lot of people don't like you, they are just the loudest. The number that do always greatly outnumber ones that don't, they are just harder to hear over the BS.
Posted by Belle2Be[/QUOTE]

Yeah, but if those few are complete aholes most of the time, what's the point? Why would anyone hang out somewhere where they were being attacked on a regular basis? It's just not worth it.

At some point, it's probably a good decision to break away and realize that none of this bullshit is remotely real.

jasmineh7777 · August 2010

Sesh- When did this happen? And seriously, I want to biitch slap whoever that was. \

And yes, Heels, I think we would all love for you to stay. However, if this is causing you serious distress, I understand why you would want to leave the situation

xyrius · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:641e7b90-aad4-49dc-a998-e6d4de98e6e2">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]Yeah. Several times. Douchey, huh?<strong> Let me just state for the record that I didn't start this thread to get the call out blogs taken down for my personal benefit. Not that any of you would say that (hopefully) but I can just feel another E shitstorm coming on</strong>. But seriously, I feel like I have thicker skin than most. The thought of anyone else hurting because of something some dickwadcuntrag said on these blogs just tears me up.
Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE]

I don't speak for E, but I'm pretty sure everyone there feels the same way as you do about that infuriating site, and I think that's something we can all agree on - that we want it taken down.

I'll send an e-mail too, I hope it works.

I don't know you heels, but fwiw, I saw your sig pic earlier in the day and I think your braces are adorable. :)

SarahPLiz · August 2010

THis shiit sucks. I refuse to participate in any of it. Please don't go away, Heels. Don't let them win.

[Deleted User] · August 2010

It was way before I ever came onto SB, Jas. First it was a chick who thought I was lying about my books then the others just jumped on the bandwagon.

dmiller9274 · August 2010

Heels, I hope you don't go, I genuinely enjoy what you have to say/type.
Please don't let some fuckstick run you off. If they had something valid to bitch about, they wouldn't have to hide behind an anonymous post.

K Byte · August 2010

Nuuuu Heels don't leave.

goheels05 · August 2010

Hugs Sesh.

Not only is Rach in her wedding dress, her hair is in a full updo. I think she might have even gone to work that way.

RachNRich · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:fc44c9c9-118e-4237-b280-d4c1844965fe">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]Shut up, Rach. You know you're wearing your wedding dress right now. You're creepy like that.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]
Rich wore his wedding suit to work today (it was just a regular J Crew suit), and told me in advance because he thought I might be peeved.<div>
</div><div>My response? Why would I be peeved? My plan was to wear my wedding dress to work today, too.</div><div>
</div><div>And I did.</div><div>
</div><div>
</div><div>
</div><div>
</div><div>
</div><div>
</div><div>No, I didn't.</div>

katiewhompus · August 2010

Aw Heelsy

You know we love you here.

Belle2Be · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:c531b99a-07ff-478a-8f72-9b6b3e606d90">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit. : In my sig? Justin Alexander 8313. Or now? Cuz...well, I'm not wearing a dress right now
Posted by RachNRich[/QUOTE]
This made me LOL for reals.
So... is it for sale?

And on topic, Heels, we fully expect you to come back after a short break :) I'm new and I'll even miss ya if your gone :)

[Deleted User] · August 2010

How is work going, Rach? Are you excited about our girl's shopping trip?

DodgersBride · August 2010

I hope that you stay. I'm fairly new still and have always enjoyed your posts and responses. I didn't know that it was that serious and now have a new level of respect for you. You have been able to let thing roll off your back and that is something you should be proud of. Most ppl can't do that. I respect your choice to leave if you and wish you the best.

Belle2Be · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:1f03ee3f-16b1-40b0-a2e2-2bd8aa2dac41">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit. : Yeah, but if those few are complete aholes most of the time, what's the point? Why would anyone hang out somewhere where they were being attacked on a regular basis? It's just not worth it. At some point, it's probably a good decision to break away and realize that none of this bullshit is remotely real.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]
Then take a break, I get that. But I'm sure she's made friends here, that shouldn't have to stop because of a few really bad eggs.

RachNRich · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:b81626fa-bd64-494d-ae95-d45b9cd1b7d4">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit. : This made me LOL for reals. So... is it for sale? And on topic, Heels, we fully expect you to come back after a short break :) I'm new and I'll even miss ya if your gone :)
Posted by Belle2Be[/QUOTE]
Gaaaah!! I don't think I could ever part with it....but, I am know for loaning things out around these parts.

jasmineh7777 · August 2010

Sesh- Stupid miserable biitches. I bet they don't have any books published.

I am getting really angry about this. So I think I need to step away from the computer for a bit.

RachNRich · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:ac5627e0-dcfd-4bec-a4f8-5166caa55640">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]How is work going, Rach? Are you excited about our girl's shopping trip?
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]
Been meaning to update you---Rich and I will be in DC for the 2, 3, &4th for another nerd conference--so, we'll be home for that sunday and monday--will either of those days work for you?<div>
</div><div>ETA: Work is going much better everyday...I think in a few weeks, I'll really like it. But, this whole learning process is making me feel a tad bit stupid. </div>

[Deleted User] · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:0c254f39-ab58-4e1f-abf5-22d3671ba49c">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit. : Then take a break, I get that. But I'm sure she's made friends here, that shouldn't have to stop because of a few really bad eggs.
Posted by Belle2Be[/QUOTE]

In Heels' case, I'm not sure that taking a break would make the bullshit stop.

dmiller9274 · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:f993884b-5c03-49ab-9219-7d913f7c7aa4">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]It was way before I ever came onto SB, Jas. First it was a chick who thought I was lying about my books then the others just jumped on the bandwagon.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

You were not lying about your books. I was going to post earlier how AWESOME HH is. It's not a book that I would normally pick out, but I love it and am so glad that I joined TK just to find another author to follow. The 2nd is on order, and I would very much like for you to get started on another one :) You are incredibly talented, and creative.
Also, I ordered the first book from Amazon and I got an autographed copy (woot woot), didn't even see that when I ordered it!

DodgersBride · August 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_im-going-made-fun-of-this-but-ive-stopped-giving-ashit?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1ccb993d-4bc3-4f83-b432-907ed45d0aeaPost:6add9b70-aa39-4fa3-aa46-b04ef9051d14">Re: I'm going to get made fun of for this but I've stopped giving ashit.</a>:
[QUOTE]Well, Heels, I for one hope you stay. I know how much it sucks to have people make fun of you on here though. I've had people attack my looks, my H, people tell me <strong>my childhood abuse was my fault</strong>. They don't care about how it might hurt you, they just want to get a rise out of you and make you leave. Don't give them the satisfaction. Fvck 'em all.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

That sucks! I seriously wish I could punch whoever said anything to you. I can't believe anyone can be that full of hate. They must be serious disturbed.

The <strong>bold</strong> part make my stomach turn. I don't know what would drive one to say things like that to anyone. You were a child and it was most definitely NOT your fault! If I could hug you through the computer I would but I don't think you a hugger right?

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