Originally we were going to do a buffet line but now we have switched to a plated meal where the guests will pick out their meal when they RSVP. We will include a statement that says "We have reserved ___ seats in your honour" and it could be anywhere from 1 to 4 seats reserved for one family/person. I need to know which person is having which meal because we will somehow color code the place card so that the wait staff will know who gets what.
I'm at a loss as to how I can write this all out and keep it elegant and not confusing for the guests on the RSVP cards.