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Kenneth Stillman Video

Hey knotties!

I'm considering hiring Ken Stillman as my videographer. I have only heard great things from friends. Has anyone here used him as a vendor? If so what package did you get? Were you happy with your final product?

Also his prices seem pretty set in stone, did anyone talk him down from his listed price points? Any info would be really appreciated.

Thank you!!!
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Re: Kenneth Stillman Video

  • Northstar1808Northstar1808 member
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    edited December 2011
    His prices are set in stone. When I tried to negotiate he didn't go down in the price but threw in the big show video for free since that wasn't in my pacakge. I got his only standard package that he had back in 2009 but he has then changed it. I didn't get married yet so I can't way whether or not I like it but I have seen his work and it's amazing. He does really good work for his price. My friend go married 2 weeks ago and I saw her Big Show and it was really good.

    The only thing is that he's tough to get in contact with and you won't get your entire video until at least a year later. But I hear from everyone that it's well worth the wait. I know two brides that got married last July and still haven't gotten their video yet.
  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    Why does it seem like there's a question about this guy every.single.day??
  • BoldHartBoldHart member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    lol I just noticed all the other posts! Sorry for re-post but this was different... his video work is AMAZING but I have heard really mixed reviews
  • angel33284angel33284 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    She's new on here. Would you cut her some slack. Jeez. Why did you even bother reading the post if you already knew it would bother you?
  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    angel, you don't post unless it has to do with him either.  Maybe you ARE him??  Or one of his assistants?

    ETA:  BoldHart, I was not criticizing you at all, really.  It just seems that we get posts about him everyday on this board concerned with how long he takes to deliver his videos.
  • Collthedoll04Collthedoll04 member
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    edited December 2011
    Hi ladies,
    Not sure if you've made up your mind on Ken but I actually married a videographer and although i'm obviously biased, i think his work is great and reasonably priced.  we didn't have our own wedding video taped b/c at the time we didn't find anyone who suited our style and was at a price point we could afford, hence we started our business.

    check out http://www.befilmsnow.com if you're still looking for someone. you can also email Anthony at info@befilmsnow.com

    Congrats & good luck!!!


  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    Coll, vendors are NOT ALLOWED to post on the message boards.  Please read the rules!!
  • angel33284angel33284 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:3fbaba61-6b4f-416d-9bf3-104b14665202">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:
    [QUOTE]Hi ladies, Not sure if you've made up your mind on Ken but I actually married a videographer and although i'm obviously biased, i think his work is great and reasonably priced.  we didn't have our own wedding video taped b/c at the time we didn't find anyone who suited our style and was at a price point we could afford, hence we started our business. check out <a href="http://www.befilmsnow.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.befilmsnow.com</a> if you're still looking for someone. you can also email Anthony at info@befilmsnow.com Congrats & good luck!!!
    Posted by Collthedoll04[/QUOTE]

    <div>When you watch your videos do you realize how sucky, boring and cheesy they are? The first video on your site ha a 14 second shot of what I'm assuming is supposed to be a time lapse. Can you say "mooo"? Because you really milked that shot.</div><div>
    </div><div>Then on your blog the second video has a 10 second opening clip where you can't even tell what's being filmed. Followed shortly by a 10 second clip of the bridemaids shoulders?</div><div>
    </div><div>And why are you shooting digital and then making it look like super 8 mm? Do you think this makes you artsy? I think it's cheesy. It's the year 2010. Films are being shown in IMAX. When was the last time you saw a movie that was made to look like it was shot by an amateur with a super 8 camera?</div><div>
    </div><div>i would suggest you get some good videos on your site before you start spamming people on The Knot.</div>
  • lmparlettlmparlett member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Col,
    You need to stop posting.

    Angel,
    When are you going to tell us which photo/video company you work for... you only comment when we are talking about photographers or videographers, and its usually to bash someone.
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  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:539ab243-8596-44d2-b47d-83dd899a0407">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:
    [QUOTE]Col, You need to stop posting. <strong>Angel, When are you going to tell us which photo/video company you work for... you only comment when we are talking about photographers or videographers, and its usually to bash someone.
    </strong>Posted by lmparlett[/QUOTE]

    Yes, thank you!  And usually <strong>I'm </strong>the one she bashes for no good reason!
  • angel33284angel33284 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:539ab243-8596-44d2-b47d-83dd899a0407">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:
    [QUOTE]Col, You need to stop posting. Angel, When are you going to tell us which photo/video company you work for... you only comment when we are talking about photographers or videographers, and its usually to bash someone.
    Posted by lmparlett[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Please educate yourself before posting about me. I post about lots of different subjects and he ONLY reason I bashed this person was because they are a vendor. Actually I think you should just leave their posts up. The videos will speak for themselves.</div><div>
    </div><div>There. How's that? Now if they damage their business it will be of their own doing. Go check out their work to see what I mean.

    </div>
  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    Angel:  you also bash your fellow Knotties for no good reason.
  • angel33284angel33284 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:14784a63-05ad-43c6-bee4-90745782b77c">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:
    [QUOTE]Angel:  you also bash your fellow Knotties for no good reason.
    Posted by Musicheals71[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Actually, I don't. If you don't read my posts so you have your facts straight then please don't criticize my posts.

    </div>
  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:6c32ae5a-d427-4e0a-9e24-012ae59663fd">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Kenneth Stillman Video : Actually, I don't. If you don't read my posts so you have your facts straight then please don't criticize my posts.
    Posted by angel33284[/QUOTE]

    Excuse me, Angel, but in case your memory is short, I will remind you of how you gave me a severe bashing just for showing other Knotties a post about Kenneth Stillman being a year or more late with delivering his videos.  You turned around and personally attacked my choice of videographer.  Is it coming back to you now??

    And lmpartlett is right:  you only rear your ugliness when someone talks about videography or photography.  You are not a real Knottie, you are a troll.
  • lmparlettlmparlett member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Actually, I wasn't posting ABOUT you... I was posting TO you.. : ) 

    I agree that vendors should not be posting... but I think we should keep or opinions on vendors to ourselves, and let other brides (like musicheals) make their minds up themselves... to each their own...
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  • angel33284angel33284 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:ad0b4bd1-6855-4ec9-8dda-4443e4f9b6ae">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Kenneth Stillman Video : Excuse me, Angel, but in case your memory is short, I will remind you of how you gave me a severe bashing just for showing other Knotties a post about Kenneth Stillman being a year or more late with delivering his videos.  You turned around and personally attacked my choice of videographer.  Is it coming back to you now?? And lmpartlett is right:  you only rear your ugliness when someone talks about videography or photography.  You are not a real Knottie, you are a troll.
    Posted by Musicheals71[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>I haven't said one word to you in how long? Get over yourself.

    </div>
  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:057eba98-4c5d-4cbc-b942-4faf02f852bb">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:
    [QUOTE]She's new on here. Would you cut her some slack. Jeez. Why did you even bother reading the post if you already knew it would bother you?
    Posted by angel33284[/QUOTE]

    So the above quote was "not one word" to me?
  • edited December 2011
    The drama, the drama. If you don't want to read a post, don't click on it. Problem solved.
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  • angel33284angel33284 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:4a7976fb-a922-4a81-91c2-04de825e1613">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:<div>
    </div><div>Angel:  you also bash your fellow Knotties for no good reason.

    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Kenneth Stillman Video : So the above quote was "not one word" to me?
    Posted by Musicheals71[/QUOTE]</div><div>
    </div><div>Explain how I bashed you? I told you to give her a break because she was new. I didn't make any comments about you. I'm starting to think that you just like coming on here to start your own drama.

    </div>
  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:fedab1ac-dc26-4606-9d48-829702b0ee0a">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Kenneth Stillman Video : Angel:  you also bash your fellow Knotties for no good reason. Explain how I bashed you? I told you to give her a break because she was new. I didn't make any comments about you. I'm starting to think that you just like coming on here to start your own drama.
    Posted by angel33284[/QUOTE]

    Look who's talking...you're already married, do us all a favor and go away.
  • Melissa19791Melissa19791 member
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    edited December 2011
    Dear Kenneth Stillman:
    On behalf of the members of The Knot, please stop polluting the message boards that are meant to assist brides and grooms during a very stressful and overwhelming planning process.  Everyone knows that you are a fraud, using fake accounts and sending agents to spread your verbal diarrhea.   We are tired of reading your KSV message threads everyday, which you are obviously creating yourself.  Why don't you use that time to actually finish the work that people have paid you good money for. I would heed this advice, as your senseless marketing strategies on these message boards are no doubt having a negative impact on your business.  I for one would never consider you as a videographer at this point and would tell everyone I know who even mentions the word "videographer" to stay far, far away from you.  It seems your minions have also taken to breaking other rules - like harassing other posters...now that can't be good for business.  Leave us alone.  Thank you.
  • Melissa19791Melissa19791 member
    First Comment
    edited December 2011
    And musicheals, you're not helping the situation at all.  Who appointed you chief police of the Knot?  Don't pay these people any attention and they will go away on their own.  Knot members are not stupid.  They know how to read between the lines. 
  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:7886daa5-a705-44fb-bdb2-4c5ad2d7c283">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:
    [QUOTE]And musicheals, you're not helping the situation at all.  Who appointed you chief police of the Knot?  Don't pay these people any attention and they will go away on their own.  Knot members are not stupid.  They know how to read between the lines. 
    Posted by Melissa19791[/QUOTE]

    Melissa:  you just joined today, and do not know the backstory, so stay out of it.
  • Melissa19791Melissa19791 member
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    edited December 2011
    It's not hard to see the backstory...you've posted over 4,000 times on every subject there is and you police every message board I've been on.  Maybe your problem with my post is that someone actually has an opinion other than you.  Thanks for being so lovely to a new fellow Knottie. 
  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:bd39ecbc-7a69-4360-808e-9ba34825e237">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:
    [QUOTE]It's not hard to see the backstory...you've posted over 4,000 times on every subject there is and you police every message board I've been on.  Maybe your problem with my post is that someone actually has an opinion other than you.  Thanks for being so lovely to a new fellow Knottie. 
    Posted by Melissa19791[/QUOTE]

    Um, you weren't exactly being nice to me.  You can dish it out but you sure can't take it.  Go away.
  • BoldHartBoldHart member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    aaaaah I just read all of this! I promise I am not Ken Stillman! I've actually chosen to go with someone completely different because of all the bad reviews. Thanks to those who did answer my questions about him, I appreciate it
  • Melissa19791Melissa19791 member
    First Comment
    edited December 2011

    BoldHart,  I'm glad that someone was able to have a positive experience from this board!  I wish you all the best:)  We will be looking for a videographer soon, who did you go with?  Keep us posted on that experience!


    Musicheals, "Go Away?" That's funny....I'm sure that is what everyone else would like to say to your egotistical behavior.  It is strange that you continue to try and bully me out of discussion.  Seems like you may have "control" issues which are normally generated from lack of control in other aspects of ones life.  Perhaps bossing people around on the knot fullfills your inferiority complex.  Good Luck with that!

  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_south-new-jersey_kenneth-stillman-video-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:128Discussion:9ddea414-d94e-4ab6-8bcc-a7cd66448a70Post:ed5f95b5-6a0a-4f50-9a11-3a5cfaeeaedd">Re: Kenneth Stillman Video</a>:
    [QUOTE]Musicheals, "Go Away?" That's funny....I'm sure that is what everyone else would like to say to your egotistical behavior.  It is strange that you continue to try and bully me out of discussion.  Seems like you may have "control" issues which are normally generated from lack of control in other aspects of ones life.  Perhaps bossing people around on the knot fullfills your inferiority complex.  Good Luck with that!
    Posted by Melissa19791[/QUOTE]

    I get along with everyone on this board; you're the one who decided to be the bully!  Are you proud of yourself?

    Oh, and your psychoanalysis is so dead on, bravo.

    ETA:  I am done.  This post has gotten wayyy out of hand, and to most of you and BoldHart, I do apologize.
  • Bennyc17Bennyc17 member
    First Comment
    edited December 2011
    I am convinced Kenneth Stillman is a scam artist.  His company runs the same scam many contractors do.  He takes project after project collects the money and doesn't complete the work and doesn't respond to messages and emails.  A year and a half is a ridiculous time to wait for a video.  My sister got married in November 08 and has not received her video from Kenneth Stillman yet.  That is 21 Months ago.   

    Here are some fun facts:
    The Empire State Building was built in 14 months
    The Pentagon was built in 16 months
  • edited December 2011
    I wouldn't reccomend Kenneth Stillman. My wedding was over a year ago. I still haven't recieved my video and have called or e mail him 20 times since January with NO RESPONSE!! This isn't acceptable. There are plenty of affordable talanted videographers out there who are professional and courteous.
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