Bachelor party or serious headache?

Re: Bachelor party or serious headache?

• jesslca113 member

  

  December 2011

  I feel for you.  While I'd like to say "just deal with it" I know that I would have my concerns as well.  This guys sounds like he has NO respect for you.  Refusing to take his phone with him or not answering it is very strange.  What happens if there was an emergency?  He just wouldn't find out until his party was over?  Like another PP said he sounds like a 21 year old, not an engaged 27 year old.  I strongly suggest couceling.  If he refuses then you know where his heart is.  Things will not change after you get married.  In the end you need to worry about YOU.  You may love this guy, but what if something does happen and you just kept quiet with your feelings.  You don't want people to say "told ya so".  I really hope for the best for you.  But please don't let these red flags come and go...

  

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• RebeccaB88 member

  

  December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_bachelor-party-serious-headache?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:08880635-23ed-4cc8-b236-24fd13ae51b3Post:6ca78ae7-c533-4536-9e21-cc2e9f8d131e">Re: Bachelor party or serious headache?</a>:
  [QUOTE]my FI is 27. His friends range from 27-30
  Posted by jaymechaos[/QUOTE]
  
  It's no wonder these douches are all still single.  There's not an intelligent woman on this earth who would have one of them.  Just a bunch of selfish, immature, idiot jackasses. 
  
  I would run screaming.  NOW.  I have no idea how you ever made it as far as an engagement with this guy.  I'd have gotten tired of his lies a long time ago. 

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• LADY324

  

  December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_bachelor-party-serious-headache?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:08880635-23ed-4cc8-b236-24fd13ae51b3Post:3ee52857-4c40-4fcb-a370-d925f0601b76">Re: Bachelor party or serious headache?</a>:
  [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Bachelor party or serious headache? : Sounds like he needs new friend.  You don't have a bachelor party problem, you have a FI problem.  Why is he friends with people who would try to get him to hurt the woman he is marrying? Leaves his phone home so you can't get in touch?  EFF THAT
  Posted by ILoveMilkDuds[/QUOTE]
  
  I agree with milkduds it sounds like you are afraid that his friends are going to put him in a position where he might cheat on you.  If you trusted him you would not be this nervous.  Has he done things in the past that broke your trust?  I think it's shady that he does not want to bring his phone or have any contact with you.  Everything he is saying to you rubs me the wrong way.

  

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