When is it appropriate to put and family? I'm not really close to any of my cousins so I was thinking about just addressing the Invites to the parents and then putting and family. Some of the cousins are over 18 and don't live with their parents but since I'm not close to them I don't even know where they live. What do you girls think? I'm also trying to keep numbers down and really don't want them to bring a guest, is this horrible?