My mom and sperm donor are divorced and have been since I was 3 years old, I have not talked to him since my daughter was born almost 8 years ago,I am 28, therefore I cant invite him to the wedding bc I have no way to get in touch with him , My mom remarried and was married to a guy i called my dad and look up to, for 21 years. He and I are dancing to your my hero, by Teressa James. I told my mom about it and she said he is gonna cry. that is not the problem, my mom and step dad have been divorced for 2 years now and she has a boyfriend and he a girlfriend both will be at the wedding, my stepdad is giving me away. My moms boyfriend of 2 years is escorting my mom down the aisle, when i showed her the song on youtube she asked what song i was gonna dance to with her boyfriend......... I had not even thought about that, it never crossed my mind... What do I do? I dont mind dancing with him at the wedding, but should I have a song picked out for he and I to dance to and if so what song????? he is only been in the picture for 2 years, he and I are not close, we just recently started getting along in the past year., he and my mom have had some pretty rocky times. I dont know what to do, I dont wanna hurt his feelings, will he be expecting for me to have a song picked out???? PLEASE HELP!!!! the wedding is March 9th 2013.