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How much is/was your budget...

Just curious what the avg. Jersey wedding is on our board as of now if this question offends you and you care not to share no biggie and sorry :o
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  • LissyM83LissyM83 member
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    edited December 2011
    Not going to give the exact total but we're over $40,000
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_much-iswas-budget?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:ec470c33-d5d0-4c70-9f0d-4497492957dfPost:6ddeba6a-b9a8-4169-b903-aecdad2b3126">Re: How much is/was your budget...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Not going to give the exact total but we're over $40,000
    Posted by LissyM83[/QUOTE]

    Ditto on this one. I wasn't too much over the 40K point but it was not where I originally wanted to be.
  • kristen8040kristen8040 member
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    edited December 2011
    My mom's budget was about 25k, but  in between the extra my parents ended up putting in and things we paid ourselves for it was probably around 30k give or take a bit.  This doesn't include honeymoon.
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  • HobokensFuryHobokensFury member
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    edited December 2011
    Although I voted 30-35 we will probably be over the 40k mark when it's all said and done.
     
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  • edited December 2011
    We thought we could have done it for $25.  Jokes on us... Easily over $40 not including the honeymoon. 
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  • GolfChick78GolfChick78 member
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    edited December 2011
    We're holding pretty tight to $20k, but I think our wedding is smaller and simpler than most.
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    Ours is just under $40,000 - by a few hundred dollars...womp wompppp.

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  • cindyn9178cindyn9178 member
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    edited December 2011
    Wow, didn't realize there were so many high budgets! I think we ended up right around 25k.
  • edited December 2011
    I can't believe that some people voted for 10,000-15,000 or 15,000-20,000. I wish that is what we were spending
    That is definitely not the average cost for a NJ wedding.
  • Renee1105Renee1105 member
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    edited December 2011
    $50K max...coming in under that so far yay!
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    We spent around $60k, not including rings or honeymoon. Things got out of control very quickly. LOL But I have to say I feel it was worth every penny.

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  • edited December 2011
    Ours will end up being around $48000 but that is including everything down to the HM including spending cash,  the rings, all vendors tips etc. 
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  • edited December 2011
    Ours is right around $40,000 including honeymoon and extras. 

    Seeing everyone else's budget makes me feel a little better though.  I should shares this with my FI to show him that other couples spend this much too haha
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  • edited December 2011
    I think we ended up around $55k by the end- not including HM/rings, but it was well worth it :)   Crazy how my original goal when we 1st got engaged was no more then $30k. Then we priced things out....
  • edited December 2011
    My original goal was 20k...I'm proud that when all is said and done, including honeymoon and rings, we should be around 30k.  Still more than I have and wanted to spend, but not bad in general.  My wedding is only 150 people though
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  • SwazzleSwazzle member
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    edited December 2011
    Ours is 40k.  Really hoping to not go over, but we just started planning so we have a ways to go. 



  • rlavachrlavach member
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    edited December 2011
    Although I have $25K+ to spend, my budget is $15K. So far, we're on target. Apparently my budget is ridiculously low. 

    According to this wedding stat board on Pinterest (LINK) the average wedding in Northern NJ is $49K & apparently we have the most formal weddigns. Who knew!
  • edited December 2011
    Our original budget was 35K. That got blown out pretty quickly. We've then went to 40K but it looks like we'll be around 47K not including the honeymoon.

    Thank goodness for overtime!
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  • cindyn9178cindyn9178 member
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    edited December 2011
    Just out of curiosity, how much did people spend on just the Reception Venue alone? Ours was just under $12k. We tried to keep our vendors under $5k, but I think they ended up being about $6k total. Then, we probably spent about another $2 to $3k on other items (invitations, dress, favors, rings etc.) I did quite a bit of DIY stuff. 
    So, not including honeymoon, just under $25k..and honeymoon is another $2500.
  • kozacskozacs member
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    edited December 2011
    I think it really depends on the size of the wedding. We are over 40k without honeymoon or rings but invited 270+. 
  • GiGiV2012GiGiV2012 member
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    edited December 2011
    We're holding strong at 25k. We're not going on a honeymoon right away so we still have time to save for that.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_much-iswas-budget?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:90Discussion:ec470c33-d5d0-4c70-9f0d-4497492957dfPost:04159599-0fb7-46d3-a826-9842414a5407">Re: How much is/was your budget...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Just out of curiosity, how much did people spend on just the Reception Venue alone? Ours was just under $12k. We tried to keep our vendors under $5k, but I think they ended up being about $6k total. Then, we probably spent about another $2 to $3k on other items (invitations, dress, favors, rings etc.) I did quite a bit of DIY stuff.  So, not including honeymoon, just under $25k..and honeymoon is another $2500.
    Posted by cindyn9178[/QUOTE]

    I'll give rounded figures. 
    Venue- over $20 for 125 ppl
    Vendors so far (incl hair & makeup)- hovering around $11 (no officiant yet)
    Rings - The guys rings are so cheap!  This is going to be around $4
    DIY/Misc items for wedding/gifts - around $2000
    Tux - Estimating $500
    Dress & all items pertaining to me/Invites- my parents are covering completely
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  • edited December 2011
    We ended up around double our original budget   LOL
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    In Response to <a href="http://northjersey.weddings.com/Sites/weddings/Pages/main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_much-iswas-budget?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:90Discussion:ec470c33-d5d0-4c70-9f0d-4497492957dfPost:b9854c61-7fdf-4e3c-89e6-0bea83ff79cd">Re: How much is/was your budget...</a>:
    [QUOTE] apparently we have the most formal weddigns. Who knew!
    Posted by rlavach[/QUOTE]

    I believe it. Almost every wedding-suitable place here - regardless of cost - has an opulent look, and few people have large enough space to have the backyard weddings that are so hot right now. I lost track of our budget toward the end (we bought a lot of non-floral decorations), but I want to say it was $42,500, minus rings and honeymoon. We had 150 guests.
  • cindyn9178cindyn9178 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_much-iswas-budget?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:90Discussion:ec470c33-d5d0-4c70-9f0d-4497492957dfPost:9e18add5-367c-4ae9-aebe-a3fe184cc222">Re: How much is/was your budget...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: How much is/was your budget... : I'll give rounded figures.  Venue- over $20 for 125 ppl Vendors so far (incl hair & makeup)- hovering around $11 (no officiant yet) Rings - The guys rings are so cheap!  This is going to be around $4 DIY/Misc items for wedding/gifts - around $2000 Tux - Estimating $500 Dress & all items pertaining to me/Invites- my parents are covering completely
    Posted by DoubleAS[/QUOTE]

    Is he buying the tux? DH's tux was free with the other rentals.
    Also, do you mind me asking, where is your reception?
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_much-iswas-budget?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:90Discussion:ec470c33-d5d0-4c70-9f0d-4497492957dfPost:69bbda1d-7b7b-4b9f-b0a6-14c9bb07c11d">Re: How much is/was your budget...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: How much is/was your budget... : Is he buying the tux? DH's tux was free with the other rentals. Also, do you mind me asking, where is your reception?
    Posted by cindyn9178[/QUOTE]

    The reception is @ The Newark Club.  We're an interfaith couple therefore we are also getting married there... Cost of ceremony there, parking (the valet people store the cars in the gararge behind One Newark Center), Maitre D, etc. all got rolled into that.

    Fiance wants a custom fit tux so he is purchasing it. 
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  • rlavachrlavach member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_much-iswas-budget?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:ec470c33-d5d0-4c70-9f0d-4497492957dfPost:869da47e-ccab-44c5-a358-9be2d5480967">Re: How much is/was your budget...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: How much is/was your budget... : I believe it. Almost every wedding-suitable place here - regardless of cost - has an opulent look, and few people have large enough space to have the backyard weddings that are so hot right now. I lost track of our budget toward the end (we bought a lot of non-floral decorations), but I want to say it was $42,500, minus rings and honeymoon. We had 150 guests.
    Posted by 37 Butter Knives[/QUOTE]

    <div>Very true, I've never been to a backyard wedding in NJ. </div><div>
    </div><div>As another PP mentioned, guest list should be a qualifier. I have 90 guests, which is why I can keep it under $15K. 200+ guests would've been nearly impossible.</div>
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_much-iswas-budget?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:90Discussion:ec470c33-d5d0-4c70-9f0d-4497492957dfPost:869da47e-ccab-44c5-a358-9be2d5480967">Re: How much is/was your budget...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: How much is/was your budget... : I believe it. Almost every wedding-suitable place here - regardless of cost - has an opulent look, and few people have large enough space to have the <strong>backyard weddings that are so hot right now.</strong> I lost track of our budget toward the end (we bought a lot of non-floral decorations), but I want to say it was $42,500, minus rings and honeymoon. We had 150 guests.
    Posted by 37 Butter Knives[/QUOTE]

    Best wedding I have ever been to was @ a camp ground in PA.  That's right, a camp ground.  I've been to weddings all over NJ in some of the "best" places, and this wedding and couple, beat them all out.
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  • cindyn9178cindyn9178 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_much-iswas-budget?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:90Discussion:ec470c33-d5d0-4c70-9f0d-4497492957dfPost:bb5a0566-303b-45aa-a8cb-1b3dc1cae43f">Re: How much is/was your budget...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: How much is/was your budget... : The reception is @ The Newark Club.  We're an interfaith couple therefore we are also getting married there... Cost of ceremony there, parking (the valet people store the cars in the gararge behind One Newark Center), Maitre D, etc. all got rolled into that. Fiance wants a custom fit tux so he is purchasing it. 
    Posted by DoubleAS[/QUOTE]

    Ok, I was just curious, because we also had 125 guests and the venue worked out to be under $12k including tax and gratuity. I'm guessing they must be charging double what I paid..
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_much-iswas-budget?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:90Discussion:ec470c33-d5d0-4c70-9f0d-4497492957dfPost:d502ae4a-4ccf-46fe-8995-8cbf1a7e2d26">Re: How much is/was your budget...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: How much is/was your budget... : Ok, I was just curious, because we also had 125 guests and the venue worked out to be under $12k including tax and gratuity. I'm guessing they must be charging double what I paid..
    Posted by cindyn9178[/QUOTE]

    I would compare the pricing to Seasons.  I will send you a PM :)
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