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TMI Tuesday

This one is for DrDifabio! :)

Do you and FI/H/SO use any toys/props/lube/whatever that you'd like to recommend? Or any hilarious bad experiences you'd like to share?
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Re: TMI Tuesday

  • edited December 2011
    We have something from Pure Romance, called Great Head & it's amazing!  It's used as a gag reflex relaxant... Leaving me more able to perform the act for FI!!  It's strawberry flavored, which does tend to taste a little weird sometimes, but it's not to bad!  It actually does work & FI LOVES when we use it!  = )

    That's all I can think of right now, but I'm sure reading other posts I'll remember other things we've used!
  • edited December 2011
    Hm..the only thing I can think of is we used one of those trojan "vibrating ring" condoms once...It was fun but not worth the money! Lol. I can think of one time when we first time we started dating, we were just about to get going and then he realized that he left his condom in the car! (this was before I started going on the pill) It was hilarious because he had to sit around waiting to go back to "normal" before he ran out to the car in some sweatpants. Lol.
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  • edited December 2011
    I also got some things from Pure Romance that have been pretty fun. The best thing we have ever tried is the vibrating c-ring, amazing!!! Turns him into a human vibrator! I mean, we aren't married we don't do any of that yet.... Wink
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  • edited December 2011
    hm-

    We/I use a regular standard-ish vibrator and some KY.

    I have tried a rabbit type vibrator and wasn't that impressed. Also, I tried the one that slips on a finger and that wasn't "strong" enough so kinda a let down there!


  • Bimbi284Bimbi284 member
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    edited December 2011
    We haven't really used any toys in bed, but we've used some things for foreplay. I have a striptease kit that's kind of fun, and then we have a sexual truth or dare game that we play...it includes chocolate "paint" that we paint each other with...and then lick off, hehe.
  • edited December 2011
    We use various lube, my favorites are the warming and tingling from KY. The first time we used the tingling FI did a funny like dance like its burning I dunno if this is normal. It was HIL-LAR-IOUS!

    We also started my pillow on fire while using candles one time- in the middle of it the fire alarm went off and he yelled FIRE! It was inches from my head! We both jumped off and he froze, so I grabed the pillow and ran to the bathroom and threw it in the tub, naked LoL then we both prayed we didn't have to evac the entire apartment building! Worst part of the whole deal is the bedding was a gift from my mom and she noticed right away the next time she visited we were missing a pillow case - I told her I burned it with one of my candles but didn't go into any more details LoL. (my cousin burned down my grandparents house with a candle so she didn't ask anymore questions but was pissed I didn't learn from him)

    Needless to say we don't use candle we use those battery votives. :)
  • edited December 2011
    Oh my gosh shan, your cousin burned down your grandparents house?! Lol that is pretty intense!
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    edited December 2011
  • edited December 2011

    Shan - your story was a good laugh :)

    We have used the c*ck ring that attached the magic vibrating bullet to it & I too have tired the tasteful jelly stuff for when I perform the act for FI.  We haven't busted those out in awhile though (years) - we've been together for 7...so I am talking at least 3 years since i've even opened the bag.  Maybe it's time to go digging again for all that stuff.  I once hosted a pure pleasures party so I got a whole bunch of free stuff.

    I love TMI Tuesday :)

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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_minnesota-minneapolis-st-paul_tmi-tuesday-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:81Discussion:5ae6c467-e2f6-432b-9d49-97dd576d82bfPost:9e32dd7c-d552-46eb-b444-dc2fb8c65aba">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oh my gosh shan, your cousin burned down your grandparents house?! Lol that is pretty intense!
    Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]


    Well not completely to the ground but enough to where they had to gut the entire thing and rebuild.
    He was a troubled teen, and my grandparents had custody he was living there and smoking cigs in his room in the basement and was trying to cover up the smell with candles. Not smart - he had the ceiling fan on too which either knocked over the candle or allowed the flame to jump and start his room on fire. Now he smokes outside LoL
  • drdifabiodrdifabio member
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    edited December 2011
    Ha wow Shan! We dont play with candles and maybe that is a good thing!

    We use personal mousse instead of your typical lube as it is SO much nicer. I dont like the sticky feeling and this feels much lighter.

    It is called Intimate Options Replens Personal Lubricant Mousse:

    They used to sell it at Target but have since stopped so now we just buy it online.

    We also have used the vibrating c-rings and really like those. We have only ever used the disposable ones though but I have a friend that has a reusable one and loves it, says it is way better than the little disposable ones, so we might have to go get one of those at some point.
  • SSaltzman87SSaltzman87 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_minnesota-minneapolis-st-paul_tmi-tuesday-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:81Discussion:5ae6c467-e2f6-432b-9d49-97dd576d82bfPost:caf8ee8d-f335-48b6-b56a-846b7a68f3be">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]We have something from <strong>Pure Romance, called Great Head</strong> & it's amazing!  It's used as a gag reflex relaxant... Leaving me more able to perform the act for FI!!  It's strawberry flavored, which does tend to taste a little weird sometimes, but it's not to bad!  It actually does work & FI LOVES when we use it!  = ) That's all I can think of right now, but I'm sure reading other posts I'll remember other things we've used!
    Posted by MikeNAndi[/QUOTE]

    OMG FI is obsessed with that stuff! I happened to get mine for free when I hosted a Pure Romance party last year for my friends :-)
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  • SSaltzman87SSaltzman87 member
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    edited December 2011
    The Pure Romance stuff is pretty awesome, I like it!

    We have a bunch of stuff at home from that line :-)
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  • edited December 2011
    FI and I have never really experimented with toys... now you girls have me curious... any websites you're recommend? I don't know anyone who sells Pure Romance
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_minnesota-minneapolis-st-paul_tmi-tuesday-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:81Discussion:5ae6c467-e2f6-432b-9d49-97dd576d82bfPost:2621ada2-d66a-4964-98c2-cbe9f1e9a551">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]FI and I have never really experimented with toys... now you girls have me curious... any websites you're recommend? I don't know anyone who sells Pure Romance
    Posted by MilitaryBride2Be[/QUOTE]

    <div>Ditto, to be honest.  We've never used anything.... not that I'm complaining ;)</div><div>
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm with you Steph, I've only used the one thing and otherwise nothing. But I'm also not complaining! ;)
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  • graysquirrelgraysquirrel member
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    edited December 2011
    We've used the KY His & Hers. I like it, but he doesn't really notice a difference. I got a variety pack from Pure Romance a few weeks ago, but I'm saving it for the HM as a surprise. I'm really looking forward to the tropical  massage oil. 
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  • debbieupperdebbieupper member
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    edited December 2011
    We've used a few different lubes, but generally stay away from the uber-scented, fake fruit ones. Right now we have Astroglide. 

    We've been together for over six years, so we've tried a bunch of stuff -- most of it isn't anything we'd stick with, but my favorites are:
    • Xcream in buttercream by Slumber Parties (like Pure Romance) -- LOVE this stuff!
    • Small handheld vibrator with a remote (so the controls aren't on the actual vibrator ... makes it so much easier!)
    • Victoria's Secret Vanilla Craving Edible Shimmer Powder -- comes with a powder puff and is REALLY enjoyable when licked off ...
    We've tried the vibrating c**k rings, too, but they're all too tight on him and it makes it too uncomfortable ... how's that for TMI? ;)

    Danielle, I will def try some of that mousse! I'm not a fan of how sticky the lube is.
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  • edited December 2011
    Oh, sure, Debbie... just brag it up. ;)

































    psst. H and I run into the same problem with most condoms...
  • edited December 2011
    Haha I enjoy where this conversation is going... lol my FI walked in on his roommate and some girl yesterday and all he said afterward to me was "It reaffirmed my confidence." Lol, boys!
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  • debbieupperdebbieupper member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_minnesota-minneapolis-st-paul_tmi-tuesday-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:81Discussion:5ae6c467-e2f6-432b-9d49-97dd576d82bfPost:273fe7b3-9ff6-431f-a3db-8ae5a5a95854">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]Haha I enjoy where this conversation is going... lol my FI walked in on his roommate and some girl yesterday and all he said afterward to me was "It reaffirmed my confidence." Lol, boys!
    Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]

    <div>Haha, that is hilarious.</div><div>
    </div><div>What can I say, Steph? Imagine losing your v-card to that, though ... :)</div>
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  • debbieupperdebbieupper member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_minnesota-minneapolis-st-paul_tmi-tuesday-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:81Discussion:5ae6c467-e2f6-432b-9d49-97dd576d82bfPost:f09bb17c-0d7c-4e6d-b15b-178d4714a8d3">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI Tuesday : Haha, that is hilarious. What can I say, Steph? Imagine losing your v-card to that, though ... :)
    Posted by debbieupper[/QUOTE]

    <div>... Too far?</div><div>
    </div><div>;)</div>
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_minnesota-minneapolis-st-paul_tmi-tuesday-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:81Discussion:5ae6c467-e2f6-432b-9d49-97dd576d82bfPost:8b8e3a3b-0f1f-4a6f-ae82-8c78e001cb10">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI Tuesday : ... Too far? ;)
    Posted by debbieupper[/QUOTE]

    <div>meh. 'too far' doesn't exist on TMI Tuesdays!</div>
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_minnesota-minneapolis-st-paul_tmi-tuesday-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:81Discussion:5ae6c467-e2f6-432b-9d49-97dd576d82bfPost:f09bb17c-0d7c-4e6d-b15b-178d4714a8d3">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI Tuesday : Haha, that is hilarious. What can I say, Steph? Imagine losing your v-card to that, though ... :)
    Posted by debbieupper[/QUOTE]

    Did you lose your V-Card to him?  I had a "few" in between my first and my last(FI) and my first was also very endowed and that was painful!
  • wittyschaffywittyschaffy member
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    edited December 2011
    lol - I hear ya Debbie!  We're somewhat limited in the types of add ons we can try because most are too tight for DH.  (not complaining or braggin'-just sayin')  We have a set of fantasy dice that come out on occasion.  One die has verbs like lick, touch, suck, etc. and the other has body parts.  Tried one of the "shared sensations" condoms once too.  DH also did a little hopping around when the tingly stuff kicked in.  lol.  It was nice for me but we opted not to put DH through that again.  *grin*  Can honestly say we've never started anything on fire but shan, that story is pretty funny! 
  • edited December 2011
    Haha I understand Debbie--it was the same for me with my FI, he was my first. I was like, "Is it supposed to HURT this much?" lol. There are still certain things we can't do because of it. I think it makes FI kinda happy when he realizes the reasoning though, haha.
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  • debbieupperdebbieupper member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_minnesota-minneapolis-st-paul_tmi-tuesday-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:81Discussion:5ae6c467-e2f6-432b-9d49-97dd576d82bfPost:4e05e47b-b283-4169-9285-a9910ebea241">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI Tuesday : Did you lose your V-Card to him?  I had a "few" in between my first and my last(FI) and my first was also very endowed and that was painful!
    Posted by KateJ10[/QUOTE]

    <div>He was my first, but not my only. :) </div><div>
    </div><div>During our relationship we became non-exclusive two different times (one lasted all of a month, the other was a 6-month period), and I was with a couple of gents during those times. ... and then there's my first serious bf, and honestly I don't know. Some people would qualify him as my first, but I still say it's Andy! Hard to define these things. (tee hee ... hard.)</div>
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  • debbieupperdebbieupper member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_minnesota-minneapolis-st-paul_tmi-tuesday-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:81Discussion:5ae6c467-e2f6-432b-9d49-97dd576d82bfPost:5ae9c0ff-fae0-4096-8a37-5f762172deb4">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]Haha I understand Debbie--it was the same for me with my FI, he was my first. I was like, "Is it supposed to HURT this much?" lol. There are still certain things we can't do because of it. I think it makes FI kinda happy when he realizes the reasoning though, haha.
    Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]

    <div>Totally! And I know for a fact it makes him proud, haha.</div>
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  • edited December 2011
    Yeah, boys are pretty sensitive (haha) but also proud about that stuff! Although, since technically FI is my first AND only, I guess I don't KNOW that he should be as proud as he is. But there was a girl (and not a very..um...prudent girl if you know what I mean) who, for a while in the beginning of our relationship, kept texting my FI asking him to leave me for her because of how "good" she thought he was. (they had briefly been together prior to me meeting FI).... so I have a little background knowledge anyway! ;)
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  • edited December 2011
    BTW-- Steph, maybe this thread will get to 2 pages?! ;)
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