Ok, so my FI is mad that my MOH/bridesmaids want to throw me a shower with the "young girls", his Aunt wants to throw me a shower with his family, my Step-mom wants to throw both of us a couples shower with her family and my dad's side and my mom's sister wants to throw me a shower for her side of the family. I was discussing this with my FI and he got really upset and said that I didn't need that many parties and he didn't want me to have that many. I guess I was taken back because they won't involve the same people except for me, and I didn't ask for them to throw me any parties so I don't really see what the issue is. I asked him and he was like well you should just have one party, not 4. So I was wondering, should I really ask these people to travel, and change the dates of the parties that they planned to suit my FI? I'm getting a vibe from him that he is jealous that I am getting these parties, but if we do get gifts, they would be for both of us. Would it be weird to maybe invite him to one of them? Or talk to his best man about having a guys night?
