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S/O Annoying Things - Crying at the Wedding

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Re: S/O Annoying Things - Crying at the Wedding

  • You're WAY too sweet Beatles.  There was some ugly crying going on.  I've just destroyed those photos ;) 
  • Hm, I don't want to call you a liar Julez, but I've seen your video... Tongue out



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  • Beatles, it was SUCH a relief to be at the reception!  I think we were thrilled to just be married so we could relax.
  • Ah, but DH edited that video and do you think I'd stay married to him if he included ugly crying footage? Tongue out
  • I'm fairly sure I will. I know my mother will be sobbing. (With happiness - she loves FI.)

    But we'll see. I'll report back in 10 months.
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  • Ha! You've got a good one there, julez. He must have known it was grounds for annulment to show unflattering pictures of his wife.

    Banana, we felt the same way. Just bliss and relaxation after the "I will's."

    Mery, we'll have to poll again after all the October brides do their thing. :)



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    "cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
  • I really thought I wouldn't cry. I never cry when people typically do, but I cried when I saw the church. I cried  when I was getting ready. I cried coming down the aisle and I cried during our vows.

    I was such a crybaby.

    I think it was just that after almost 7 years of knowing I wanted to marry him, it was finally time.
  • I cry at everything, including Hallmark commercials, but for some reason I didn't cry at all on the wedding day.  I really expected too, but didn't.
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  • I kept it together pretty well all day before the ceremony (6 PM), but as soon as the coordinator opened the door for me to start walking it all came out. I basically cried my way down the aisle and through half of the vows.

    I cried through almost the entire first dance.

    I also cried when I was dancing with an Uncle that I hadn't seen in a bout 5 years.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_annoying-things-crying-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:a222a506-ab5f-40bb-9726-504f2ac15a3aPost:8b5257eb-cb3c-40ca-93f9-298b4e4d6221">S/O Annoying Things - Crying at the Wedding</a>:
    [QUOTE]If you are getting married, how much do you anticipate crying at your wedding? If you are already married, did you cry at your wedding?
    Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

    I did not cry at all.  I was kinda happy and smiley but no tears.  I didn't really expect tears either though so there's that.  I never had that internal dialogue that convinced me I'd cry.  It's a HAPPY day. 

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  • I know for a fact I'll cry at my wedding. I cry at all weddings. I cried at my mom's second wedding (the one I was present for), my cousin's wedding, my sister's wedding, my best friend's wedding, my best friend's brother's wedding, and random friends here and there--some of whom are more FI's friends than mine. I just cry at weddings.

    MY wedding? you bet your ass I'll cry. I've already planned how I'll do my makeup to help it last through the tears. my something old will be this handkerchief that used to belong to my great-grandmother, I'll use it for sure.
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  • Oh yes, I was a blubbering mess.  I started crying while waiting to walk down the aisle.  My dad's eyes started to well up with tears, and that made it worse.  I cried through the vows, which made my 2 bridesmaids and the best man cry.

    I'm just an emotional person, I guess.
  • I don't know, but I'm not too worried about it.  Happy crying for me is usually only "leaky eyes" - I don't get snotty or red or anything.  Just gotta protect the makeup.

    But, I'm sure there will be some earlier in the week.  Our wedding day will be the 1 year anniversary of my grandfather's funeral, and honestly, he was the grandparent I am/was closest to.  (Our wedding date was already set before he passed away.)  I'll either cry on the 5th, which is when he died, or on the morning of the 8th.  Or both.  And some in between.  That will be ugly crying.
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  • I do not anticipate crying.  I'm not a big public crier; I think I'll be able to hold it together.  But who knows!
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