I HATE when the officiant says "is there anyone here who can give just cause for this man and this woman not to be married? if there is, speak now or forever hold your peace". it's so quiet for those few seconds and it's really uncomfortable! I really don't want this being said at our wedding but i havent had a chance to talk to my officiant yet.
i highly doubt someone will speak up or pronouce their love for either my fiance or i right before we are married...but i still don't want it.
is this something that has to be said?