I really want my step-mom, who is more like a mom to me than my real mom, my mom and my mother-in-law to light the unity candle - but 3 people cant do it. My real mom has been causing a lot of drama and is trying to make this not fun for me anymore; its has gotten to the point where I dont know if I should still invite her - just because the comments she has said and her attitude.
I dont want to give in and give my real mom the opportunity and say 'there, you got your way" but this is getting really hard on me!
How do I include 3 moms in the ceremony?? ANY advice is welcome - I am stuck!