My FI and I are paying for most of the wedding ourselves, with a little help from my mom. His mom has adamantly refused to help at all with the cost, even after a request for a loan from my FI. I want to word the invitation so ppl understand that my mom was really the only one that helped, but not incur the wrath of MIL for years to come. Is this possible?? Or do I just suck it up and say something like "Together with their parents"?