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Good Morning, Good Morning SB!
wakey wakey wakey.... anyone else up this early?
I woke up with H again this morning. His new job requires him to be on the road by 6am.. its a good thing I guess. I will get way more work done if I go to bed earlier and wake up earlier...I am just SO tired though.....
whats everyone up to? I am home until this afternoon working on a paper then heading to class.
I woke up with H again this morning. His new job requires him to be on the road by 6am.. its a good thing I guess. I will get way more work done if I go to bed earlier and wake up earlier...I am just SO tired though.....
whats everyone up to? I am home until this afternoon working on a paper then heading to class.
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I am a little bummed though because my best friend didn't call or say anything yesterday about my birthday. I know this falls into the "no one cares as much as you do" category, but in this case it's also in the "she doesn't care about you" category. I feel like I"m losing my best friend and former sister (well, step) ever since H and I got married and I don't know how to fix it. H says to just forget her and move on, but it's not that easy.
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Star, it sucks that you have to be up, but you will get so much done. I always get a ton done when I'm up early and the house is quiet.
Number, just a few days! I'm so jealous!
Sesh, you are up way too early after your birthday. That really sucks about your friend though. I would be really hurt, too.
[QUOTE]aww sesh. I know you've mentioned that she's been distant but was there a specific incident that kicked this off? I know I can't deal without real closure.. maybe you should tell her how upsetting this is?
Posted by Starmusica[/QUOTE]
No specific incident. It's always irritated me that she will promise to call me that night, or that weekend, or in 5 minutes, and 3 weeks go by before I hear anything. I end up calling her again. H calls me a friend stalker. He said last night that she's been worse since our wedding (according to me complaining, I guess), but I hate to be "that girl" who says someone is jealous. I've known her since I was 7 and grew up with her as my stepsister so I know she cares about me, I'm just not sure she wants to talk to me.
And nates, yes, it is way to early.
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Just call me "Brothel"
And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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Just call me "Brothel"
And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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I feel really good this morning which is kind of great because usually I hate mornings and feel like total crap. I was so tired yesterday that I got home, had dinner and went to bed at 7:30. I was asleep no later than 9:30.
I'm sorry about your friend Sesh. I am having a similar problem. : (
I hope your foot gets better B. What happened to it initially before the conditioner incident?
Sometime when I'm getting into the shower and not paying attention I won't lift my leg high enough to step in and I'll smash my toes right into the side of the tub. Ouch.
Sesh-sorry about your friend. I know it's not easy when you find yourself moving away from a person you have been so close to, I think I would sit back and see if she comes to me....KWIM?
Sarah-good luck with the work situation.
Today is work, then drop off my car for repairs. I hope they dont give me a Yugo for my rental. I surprised last night when DH decided not to stay up and watch Sons of Anarchy, he was so tired we went to bed at 10. But I feel better this morning.
[QUOTE]I hope your foot gets better B. What happened to it initially before the conditioner incident? Sometime when I'm getting into the shower and not paying attention I won't lift my leg high enough to step in and I'll smash my toes right into the side of the tub. Ouch.
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Thanks, LTZ. I have a chronic pain condition because of an ankle sprain back in high school.
Also, I do that too. I hate it!
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And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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[QUOTE]Good Morning ladies. Sesh-sorry about your friend. I know it's not easy when you find yourself moving away from a person you have been so close to, I think I would sit back and see if she comes to me....KWIM?
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]
Yeah, this is what I've been doing. The last time I talked to her was maybe 3 months ago. She said she'd call back that night. About 3 weeks later she texted me a picture of her injured finger and said she'd call me that weekend, never did. I texted her when I did the sidewalk painting, telling her we'd be there and would love for her to stop by (she lives about 15 minutes from there). I never saw her. So, it's up to her. I'm done trying. I feel whiny talking about it.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Morning, Good Morning SB! : Thanks, LTZ. I have a chronic pain condition because of an ankle sprain back in high school. Also, I do that too. I hate it!
Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]
Oh man, that sucks. I know what you mean though. I have pain, stiffness and swelling everyday on my left ankle from a bad injury a couple of years ago. I keep forgetting that it will always be that way and keep expecting it to go back to normal.
Sigh.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Morning, Good Morning SB! : Oh man, that sucks. I know what you mean though. I have pain, stiffness and swelling everyday on my left ankle from a bad injury a couple of years ago. <strong>I keep forgetting that it will always be that way and keep expecting it to go back to normal.</strong> Sigh.
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Yes! I know exactly what you're saying. I've wrestled with that since I was first diagnosed. In fact, to this day I refuse to wear skirts or shorts because they show off my terrible looking leg, which now turns a deep purple color all the way up to the knee at random. I keep hoping beyond hope that the next summer it will be better and I can break out the shorts again, but I'm fooling myself.
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And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Morning, Good Morning SB! : Yeah, this is what I've been doing. The last time I talked to her was maybe 3 months ago. She said she'd call back that night. About 3 weeks later she texted me a picture of her injured finger and said she'd call me that weekend, never did. I texted her when I did the sidewalk painting, telling her we'd be there and would love for her to stop by (she lives about 15 minutes from there). I never saw her. So, it's up to her. I'm done trying. I feel whiny talking about it.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]
I'm sorry! And it's ok to feel whiny. You've been in a relationship with a person for years, and now it's changed and you dont know why,like a break-up no closure.
I have had many friends I've grown apart from over the years, for one reason or another. Sometimes it was my choice,sometimes it was theirs. Doesnt make it hurt any less.
I try to remember their are people that are in your life for a reason, and season or a lifetime. We never know which one is which. She was obviously there for a season. End of ramble :/
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Morning, Good Morning SB! : I try to remember their are people that are in your life for a reason, and season or a lifetime. We never know which one is which.
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That's interesting, I've never heard that before. I don't know that I'm ready to accept that she was just there for a season, but that is something to keep in mind. I don't have many friends so to lose someone I think of as a sister would be really hard.
And, now there is a light war going on at work. I swear, people here are children. We go through this almost every day. A guy comes in at 9 and turns on the overhead lights. Another guy turns them back off. They go through this for about 10 minutes. Then light guy turns them on and light off guy throws down his mouse and curses. Every day. But tehy never confront each other personally. Save me from the children.
I was up until 3am watching movies with Manda, who decided to come down for the night. It was too much fun. But I'm going to definitely need a nap after we go uptown for some museum and shopping fun this morning. Ugh.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Morning, Good Morning SB! : That's interesting, I've never heard that before. I don't know that I'm ready to accept that she was just there for a season, but that is something to keep in mind. I don't have many friends so to lose someone I think of as a sister would be really hard. And, now there is a light war going on at work. I swear, people here are children. We go through this almost every day. A guy comes in at 9 and turns on the overhead lights. Another guy turns them back off. They go through this for about 10 minutes. Then light guy turns them on and light off guy throws down his mouse and curses. Every day. But tehy never confront each other personally. Save me from the children.
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I know I have maybe 2 or 3 real friends. Truth is my DH is my best friend. And I'm not saying your friend may be lost forever. Maybe it's an adjustment period to figure out where she fits in your life............does that make sense? I'm no good at typing what I mean.
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I'm still feeling bizarre after the flu shot yesterday. And, no, it isn't a normal reaction, so I don't discourage anyone from getting it. I may call about it today.
Max didn't want to go out this morning, so I covered him up, and when I checked back in, he was up against J and my pillow. Spoiled (big) thing he is.
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And, I'm freezing. Inside. Like, I want some blankets freezing.
B, take care of your foot.
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