At the time I got engaged, I started with 7 bridesmaids. I have a feeling i'm just going to end up with 3 if that. All because none of them have gotten the dress. I did everything I could to find a nice yet affordable one. I looked up the stores and prices of where they are in each city they live in. I called the stores in their cities to see which had the dresses I selected. Why is it none of them have bought the dress? The wedding is in 4 months. I told all of them if it's a matter of not having any money then it's 100% ok for them to decline being in the wedding party but none of them will step down. It's just really stressing me out because I don't even know how many will get their dresses in time. I wish someone had told me I didn't have to have any BM because it would have saved me a lot of stress and money too, on their bouquets. No one told me how costly it could be for their bouquets lol. I'm just wondering if I should let it go and check in a month before to see who has purchased it or if I should keep nagging them. We're all in our late 20s, I shouldn'y have to nag grown women on the one thing they have to do to be a part of this. Soooo frustrating!!