We just took our first one-on-one session with our Pastor yesterday evening. I was SO nervous at first, but it ended up being great. We took a test called PREPARE-ENRICH to test our compatability and values in various areas of life and it turns out we scored very high, consequently making us very compatible : ) What are your experiences? How early have you/did you start pre-marital counseling or one-on-one sessions with your officiant?