as i have been whining about, we are spending the weekend with the inlaws. there is at least one trip to a seafood restaurant planned, and ideally more.
dh and i have a pair of seafood scissors. i suggested we bring them and offer them to sil and bil, in case the kids want them or if it will make it easier to open crab legs for the kids. (there is one restaurant some of us want to go to, and it does not do scissors -- it is mallets only.)
dh said that it was presumptuous and insulting to sil and bil's parenting. i feel it is merely helping, and if they don't want them, i will use them.
am i in the wrong here?