New Here (long)

ravenray · February 2011

Recap: OP posts... people give her advice. Some (I think Paint) makes a comment about buying condums instead of a ring (She had two kids as "oopses") She got pissed off and started being all snarky. Bad idea, enter snark of the NEY board. I tried to be nice and talk her down. She got pissed at me. Now she is leaving because we aren't her type of crowd and unsupportive....

jilld82 · February 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_new-here-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:bc354a67-ce17-41ef-ad59-9d76b87ab7fbPost:24dafbd8-c330-4c56-b44a-b633ea29fda9">Re: New Here (long)</a>:
[QUOTE]Recap: OP posts... people give her advice. Some (I think Paint) makes a comment about buying condums instead of a ring (She had two kids as "oopses") She got pissed off and started being all snarky. Bad idea, enter snark of the NEY board. I tried to be nice and talk her down. She got pissed at me. Now she is leaving because we aren't her type of crowd and unsupportive....
Posted by ravenray[/QUOTE]

Thanks.

At least the comment was witty. OP is just pissed because she got called out. Besides I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

hetshup · February 2011

I'm never snarky. never.

ravenray · February 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_new-here-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:bc354a67-ce17-41ef-ad59-9d76b87ab7fbPost:fb63ff66-56fd-4fdb-a49f-3911bd92c2a0">Re: New Here (long)</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Here (long) : <strong>Thanks.</strong> At least the comment was witty. OP is just pissed because she got called out. Besides I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.
Posted by jilld82[/QUOTE]
Is the bolded part sacrastic? Because I in no way ment "the snark of the NEY board" as bad :)
She did have some pretty witty (haha I can tie with Carla for poetry) comments.

TheMutleys · February 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_new-here-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:bc354a67-ce17-41ef-ad59-9d76b87ab7fbPost:6fc577a5-65c2-40e4-8c95-ba7eed63729a">Re: New Here (long)</a>:
[QUOTE]Oh jeez...don't you know by now. <strong>We are white trash un educated folks.</strong> I think we'll move back in with the rent when we start on our gang of kids so we don't have to pay rent. I just luv gettin knocked up. Is that the right verb/noun? hehe...woah ok ladies for real now. I'm gonna go. I'm really not into your kind of crowd. I just wanted some support:) I will go elsewhere now.
Posted by SaraBeth10[/QUOTE]

You said it, not me.

The facts as YOU have presented them.
Fact: You got pregnant because you didn't use a condom.
Fact: You couldn't afford to have a child and support your household, so you moved in with his parents.
Fact: 6 months later, you got pregnant again...

A couple of inferences can be made from these facts.
A) You need to learn how to use condoms. They don't work if you don't put them on.
B) You didn't care about being sexually responsible while being unable to afford your 1st child.

I'm not into your type of crowd either. No harm. No foul.

jilld82 · February 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_new-here-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:bc354a67-ce17-41ef-ad59-9d76b87ab7fbPost:1be3638a-25d4-48a4-8ae8-f9016222fb36">Re: New Here (long)</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Here (long) : Is the bolded part sacrastic? Because I in no way ment "the snark of the NEY board" as bad :) She did have some pretty witty (haha I can tie with Carla for poetry) comments.
Posted by ravenray[/QUOTE]

No it's not sarcastic at all. I was all out of order on what was going because of TK being all messed up. I needed the summary.

meamolly · February 2011

Well all know that children are never a mistake. They can be conceived by mistake (not using a birth control). It was a mistake on your part to continue to not use a birth control when you were in a tight situation (living with his parents because you could not afford to live on your own). By the way how did you have enough balls to make another baby while living with his parents.... I could never do that in my parent's home... if you catch what I am speaking of *shiver*.

Anyway I hope you continue to use BC as you get on your feet and remember not to bankrupt yourself with a ring just as you are just getting started.

jilld82 · February 2011

I'm glad it's finally a little snarky in here. It's been quiet for a few days now. Damn TK tech issues.

DanieKA · February 2011

This is really hard to follow, but I pretty much agree with the people who say to simmer down. Yes, it might be disappointing to wait a week or two to go ring shopping when you were expecting to go on a certain day, but your boyfriend sounds sincere about wanting to make it a special day and not like an after-thought or a last minute stop after a bunch of errands (not that there's anything wrong with that, either). What's a week or two in the grand scheme of things?

Sounds like you are finally on your feet. Be happy with your kids and your man and don't take the board so seriously. It's meant to be fun, if you let it! Come back when you cool off.

joiner521 · February 2011

Soooo...he can make babies with you and they cost more than a damn wedding, but he won't marry you now. Makes no sense to me. You gave him children and now he is dangling a carrot. Not cool.

loves2shop4shoes · February 2011

A few words of advice...

1) Wrap it before you tap it.

2) Don't be silly, cover the willie.

3) There can be no love without the glove.

4) Before you hump, cover the stump.

5) When in doubt, shroud the sprout

6) You can't go wrong if you shield the dong.

7) If he's not going to sack it, he can go home and whack it.

8) It will be sweeter if you wrap the peter.

9) Sex is cleaner with a packaged wiener.

Oh and yeah...learn to use a condom.

jilld82 · February 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_new-here-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:bc354a67-ce17-41ef-ad59-9d76b87ab7fbPost:b543a7fa-e54a-480f-ab3e-e20f60a56ca5">Re: New Here (long)</a>:
[QUOTE]A few words of advice... 1) Wrap it before you tap it. 2) Don't be silly, cover the willie. 3) There can be no love without the glove. 4) Before you hump, cover the stump. 5) When in doubt, shroud the sprout 6) You can't go wrong if you shield the dong. 7) If he's not going to sack it, he can go home and whack it. 8) It will be sweeter if you wrap the peter. 9) Sex is cleaner with a packaged wiener. Oh and yeah...learn to use a condom.
Posted by loves2shop4shoes[/QUOTE]

HAHA! These are awesome. Fi and I got a good laugh out of it.

[Deleted User] · February 2011

TK's technical difficulties are making me seriously dizzy...

I still fail to see WTF OP really was asking advice about!? I don't recall an actual question... Just bitching, moaning and whining followed by "Any thoughts?" ... So, the responses seemed pretty fitting... and if this thread did suck enough... Joiners emergence just made it 1000x better!! ::rolls eyes::

jilld82 · February 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_new-here-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:bc354a67-ce17-41ef-ad59-9d76b87ab7fbPost:24dafbd8-c330-4c56-b44a-b633ea29fda9">Re: New Here (long)</a>:
[QUOTE]Recap: OP posts... people give her advice. Some (I think Paint) makes a comment about buying condums instead of a ring (She had two kids as "oopses") She got pissed off and started being all snarky. Bad idea, enter snark of the NEY board. I tried to be nice and talk her down. She got pissed at me. Now she is leaving because we aren't her type of crowd and unsupportive....
Posted by ravenray[/QUOTE]

This basically sums it up.

PaigeMcC · February 2011

Well this looked like an interesting conversation....

luvdncn90 · February 2011

STOP WITH THE WINKY FACE GAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

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