My fiancé is in the Marine Corps and is stationed in CA. We are planning a wedding in our hometown of Louisville, KY in January. I am going to visit him in October and we have discussed getting married out there AND getting married in Louisville. It takes awhile in the military to process marriages and housing and all of that, so we want to get married while I am out there so we can go ahead and get everything started that way when January rolls around housing and stipends can already be set up for us. How do we go about getting married twice in two different states? If the marriage in CA isn’t valid in KY and vice versa, then do we need to do anything at all? Also, we feel like we should not tell our families that we want to do this because we know they will be disappointed they didnt see the actual marriage so we want to keep it confidential. Military makes things so tricky sometimes! Thanks!!