I am trying to figure out if I want to to have a flower girl or not. I have always imagined that I would have a flower girl but my family is lacking little girls lol. I have two possibly canidiates one is 5 and her birthday is actually on my wedding day and I thought it would be really cute if I did something small for her that day so she would feel special and she would also be in a pretty dress....but the problem with her is that she does not listen and runs around like an animal and I really do not know if I want her at the reception (kids will be kids) my other option is my neice and at that age she will be 2 years old and 4 months and I would much rather have her if I did a flower girl but is that to young?