I feel like my fiance is acting like a child. I love him but I'm fed up! hes gone into work two days late, called into work three hours late cause he was "to tired to go" because he woke up at 9:40 to take me to physical therapy. First of all, this is not why hes so tired. He's so tired cause at 1 this morning him and two of his male friends decided to go on a road trip to a small town four hours or so a way and he didn't get home till 7. I know this becuase thats when he decided to come crawl into bed waking me up.
Also this is isn't the first night this week he's gone out, he's been going out every night for two weeks. At first I was trying to keep up but it's just making me sick, I go to work at 3 or 4 in the afternoon and don't leave work till 1 at the earliest. He doesn't contribute to cleaning just to the mess. It's gotten to the point i resent having to clean cause i go to work and clean, I come home and clean, i go to work and cook all night, i come home and he complaines that he's hungry so i make a frozen pizza cause im tired and he complaines we always eat pizza, I also am the one who does all our laundry. I'm tired and frustrated. And it's getting worse now that he's talking about quitting his job wanting to up at move us half way across the country! I'm freaked out and can't help worrying. I dont make near enough to support the two of us since i only make minimum wage and I know I'd still be the one doing the cooking and cleaning.
I love my mother in law, but its starting to be really hard for me not to blame her for his attitude. She's babied him, his sisters, and his dad since day one. He doesn't even know how to cook. I'm frustrated and at wits end! how do i deal? I don't want to end things. I love him, I've just had enough of his up all night sleep all day, blowing off appointments, not helpful mentality. And while i hate having to vent I just need advice and help. I can't take anymore of doing all the house work, planning our wedding, and an affirmation of ceremony for my family, and now the stress of the possibility of being the sole bread winner. okay vent over now.