We do not have any young little girls in our close circle of friends or in our immediate family. I do have 2 cousins with little girls, but they live a good ways off and the little girls do not travel well. I hate to ask them because I don't want to create a hardship on them. I'm not sure if they're coming to the wedding. Can we ask a little girl from our church? Can we ask an old friend's little girl? (We're not on bad terms, just kinda moved an hour away and don't see or talk to each other as much as we used to.)
Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.