My Fiance and I had initially decided that we did NOT want to have anyone under the age of 17 present at the wedding ceremony/reception. After a lot of push from his parents, he changed his mind and told me that he would like to have his younger cousins present at the wedding (ages 2-13). I am freaking out! Should I be though? What are your experiences with having children at weddings? I just picture them running around and destroying everything or making a scene during the ceremony.