In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_tmi-qotd-327?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ed21bb70-7548-41da-bf36-2e076cb0ab49Post:43dda39e-3438-4c05-9826-d0c05a40479c">Re:TMI QOTD 3/27</a>: [QUOTE]Kelsey ours will be the first time without a condom too. FI is excited. I'm a big kid now. Posted by spiffycoolbeans[/QUOTE]<div> </div><div>Hehe I feel the same way!</div><div> </div><div>In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_tmi-qotd-327?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ed21bb70-7548-41da-bf36-2e076cb0ab49Post:8e1864c9-681b-4d7f-b7d9-023ee4fc6b2d">Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27 : Well that's good. Are you guys TTC? Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]
</div><div>No. :( Not for 2 years...but FI has decidedly refused to wear a condom once we get married, so either my BC better work pretty well or we're going to have a little blessing on our hands!</div>
I think I am most excited about all the money I'll be saving by not having to buy them!
We don't plan on having children so we may have to keep some in stock if I'm ever on antibiotics or anything.
We are planning on it, but we have a 2 hour drive after the reception and have to be up at 3 the next morning for our 6 am flight. The first time after the wedding will be the first time w/ no condoms or BC. Yay for being a big kid!
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_tmi-qotd-327?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ed21bb70-7548-41da-bf36-2e076cb0ab49Post:8a091098-4064-42cc-a5f8-c5eab11d197c">TMI QOTD - 3/27</a>: [QUOTE]What are your thoughts on wedding night sex? Is it a must do? An unrealistic expectation? Did you or are you planning to? Will it upset you or did it upset you if you do not or did not? Posted by MMRoberts11[/QUOTE]
<div>I think its a great plan. I want it to be a must do. I think for us it's realisitc because our wedding ends at 9pm. We aren't making plans, but more than likely we will. If he goes out of his way to avoid it, I will be upset. If we both just fall asleep, nbd.</div>
My philosophy is if it happens, it happens. I don't have expectations either way and I don't want to make it a big deal and put pressure on the whole night. Our reception ends at 1am so we're both going to be tired and we'll have plenty of time to makeup for that on the honeymoon. FI and I live together, but he's going to stay at his parent's place the week of the wedding so that the wedding night is a little more special since we haven't been in the same bed for awhile.
As for the UTI's, I've had 2 before, both unbelievably painful! But after the 2nd my mom told me about going to the bathroom right after and I haven't had one since (5 years now). FI knows about me having to go and gets out of my way to go to the bathroom haha.
Another TMI, but related topic, is the other reason for going to the bathroom right away. FI and I don't use condoms; we don't have any STD's, and I have Mirena (an IUD), plus we just like it better without. Well, no one ever told me about the difference between using condoms and not, because well... the stuff that comes out of a male has to go somewhere... and with a condom, it's contained. But without, it all doesn't magically stay inside of you, especially with gravity! So going to the bathroom right after helps with that stuff too!!
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_tmi-qotd-327?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ed21bb70-7548-41da-bf36-2e076cb0ab49Post:9d97db68-c683-41c0-840c-e694cffc5344">Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27</a>: [QUOTE]Another TMI, but related topic, is the other reason for going to the bathroom right away. FI and I don't use condoms; we don't have any STD's, and I have Mirena (an IUD), plus we just like it better without. Well, no one ever told me about the difference between using condoms and not, because well... the stuff that comes out of a male has to go somewhere... and with a condom, it's contained. But without, it all doesn't magically stay inside of you, especially with gravity! So going to the bathroom right after helps with that stuff too!! Posted by Bejohnson5[/QUOTE]
This, we don't use condoms either. I'm a psycho with my pill and neither of us had any diseases coming into the relationship. My pill as worked well for years, but I won't pretend like I don't have a stock of tests under our sink and if I'm a day late I for sure pee on one.
My fiance and I have been abstaining from sex as well. I feel a little silly because I am 30 and he is 32 years old. LOL We are waiting until the wedding night and I'm hoping we're not too tired!
We're abstaining from two weeks ago (when we met with our pastor) until the wedding night... FI isn't going to let me get out of it no matter how tired I am, lol. Our wedding is a little earlier (for this reason.. yes, I planned it around sex, haha) so we'll be at the hotel around 9 or 10.
One of our jokes is I'm tired but I'm not THAT tired lol but really I can't imagine not even trying to consummate the marriage on the wedding night. That's like THE night guys, come on!
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_tmi-qotd-327?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ed21bb70-7548-41da-bf36-2e076cb0ab49Post:e25e587e-3859-4fa0-b772-00a9c5913337">Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27</a>: [QUOTE]Do any of you think it's weird if you are staying in the same hotel as your oot friends and family? I just imagine some of his friends will be like " haha they are doing it right over there" haha. I don't know why I thought of that. Posted by Cassandra999[/QUOTE]
Meh whether they are in the hotel or not they might think it. But they are all couples and most likely are doing it too so whatever haha just don't scream too loud. KIDDING
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_tmi-qotd-327?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ed21bb70-7548-41da-bf36-2e076cb0ab49Post:f94bd8cf-33ce-4135-ba7e-6b19f1161708">Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27</a>: [QUOTE]One of our jokes is I'm tired but I'm not THAT tired lol but really I can't imagine not even trying to consummate the marriage on the wedding night. That's like THE night guys, come on! Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE] Haha agree
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_tmi-qotd-327?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ed21bb70-7548-41da-bf36-2e076cb0ab49Post:f94bd8cf-33ce-4135-ba7e-6b19f1161708">Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27</a>: [QUOTE]One of our jokes is I'm tired but I'm not THAT tired lol but really I can't imagine not even trying to consummate the marriage on the wedding night. That's like THE night guys, come on! Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_tmi-qotd-327?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ed21bb70-7548-41da-bf36-2e076cb0ab49Post:9b5cd119-5b52-4c26-9efe-82ebf2e5cb29">Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27 : Pretty much all our friends and family are staying in the same hotel as us in Maui and even on the same floor (my brother is even nextdoor....it was either him or the FIL's.....). <strong>Whatever......what do they think we are gonna be doing on our wedding night? I'm sure they all did it on theirs too!! </strong> Posted by janeash[/QUOTE] Lol I know, right? But... I sitll don't think they should bring it up.
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We plan to! It will also be the first time for us without a condom. Actually, the first time for me ever without a condom because I've only ever been with FI. I'm excited!
Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27
[QUOTE]Kelsey ours will be the first time without a condom too. FI is excited. I'm a big kid now.
Posted by spiffycoolbeans[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Hehe I feel the same way!</div><div>
</div><div>In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_tmi-qotd-327?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ed21bb70-7548-41da-bf36-2e076cb0ab49Post:8e1864c9-681b-4d7f-b7d9-023ee4fc6b2d">Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27 : Well that's good. Are you guys TTC?
Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]
</div><div>No. :( Not for 2 years...but FI has decidedly refused to wear a condom once we get married, so either my BC better work pretty well or we're going to have a little blessing on our hands!</div>
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[QUOTE]What are your thoughts on wedding night sex? Is it a must do? An unrealistic expectation? Did you or are you planning to? Will it upset you or did it upset you if you do not or did not?
Posted by MMRoberts11[/QUOTE]
<div>I think its a great plan. I want it to be a must do. I think for us it's realisitc because our wedding ends at 9pm. We aren't making plans, but more than likely we will. If he goes out of his way to avoid it, I will be upset. If we both just fall asleep, nbd.</div>
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[QUOTE]Another TMI, but related topic, is the other reason for going to the bathroom right away. FI and I don't use condoms; we don't have any STD's, and I have Mirena (an IUD), plus we just like it better without. Well, no one ever told me about the difference between using condoms and not, because well... the stuff that comes out of a male has to go somewhere... and with a condom, it's contained. But without, it all doesn't magically stay inside of you, especially with gravity! So going to the bathroom right after helps with that stuff too!!
Posted by Bejohnson5[/QUOTE]
This, we don't use condoms either. I'm a psycho with my pill and neither of us had any diseases coming into the relationship. My pill as worked well for years, but I won't pretend like I don't have a stock of tests under our sink and if I'm a day late I for sure pee on one.
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[QUOTE]Do any of you think it's weird if you are staying in the same hotel as your oot friends and family? I just imagine some of his friends will be like " haha they are doing it right over there" haha. I don't know why I thought of that.
Posted by Cassandra999[/QUOTE]
Meh whether they are in the hotel or not they might think it. But they are all couples and most likely are doing it too so whatever haha just don't scream too loud. KIDDING
[QUOTE]One of our jokes is I'm tired but I'm not THAT tired lol but really I can't imagine not even trying to consummate the marriage on the wedding night. That's like THE night guys, come on!
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]
Haha agree
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[QUOTE]One of our jokes is I'm tired but I'm not THAT tired lol but really I can't imagine not even trying to consummate the marriage on the wedding night. That's like THE night guys, come on!
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]
Mine is, "but sweetie, I'm in my prime" LOL
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI QOTD - 3/27 : Pretty much all our friends and family are staying in the same hotel as us in Maui and even on the same floor (my brother is even nextdoor....it was either him or the FIL's.....). <strong>Whatever......what do they think we are gonna be doing on our wedding night? I'm sure they all did it on theirs too!! </strong>
Posted by janeash[/QUOTE]
Lol I know, right? But... I sitll don't think they should bring it up.