I am having quite a dilemma deciding what to do with my name after the big day. I really want to keep my last name but he feels as though the tradition is to take his last name and thats just how it should be. I don't really want to hyphen it and I feel like having it as like a middle name is pointless. I feels as though it is the name I've had since I was born, I am proud of my name and my heritage and don't want to just change it. I'm also kind of the end of the line and feel like the name just dies then if I change it because there isn't anyone else to carry it on. I feel like these are more solid reasons than simply "tradition." Any suggestions?